Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Student to learn about Cambodian heritage before diving into work at Boeing

Julie Ho, business student from Baker. (MSU Photo by Jay Thane.)

January 29, 2007

By Anne Pettinger
Montana State University News (USA)


When student Julie Ho joins the ranks of Montana State University alumni this spring, she will travel to Cambodia for the first time to see where her parents grew up.

It may not be a common post-graduation, pre-job trip, but the senior business major from Baker is eager to learn more about her Cambodian heritage.

Ho's parents immigrated to the United States in 1980 as Cambodian refugees, and Ho thinks it's important to visit the country. "It tells a lot about a person. I can't wait to experience where they grew up," she said. She's also excited to visit her aunt and other relatives, whom she's never met, and to travel at the same time in Vietnam and Taiwan.

Landing as Cambodian refugees in a small community in the southeast corner of Montana might seem like an unlikely place to find success, Ho wrote in an essay earlier this year, but her family has thrived in Baker.

"My parents had nothing (when they moved to Montana) and now we're all doing well," Ho said.

Her father works as a custodian at the high school, and her mother, who was pregnant with their first child when the couple left Cambodia, holds a management position at a local Chinese restaurant.

Though they had to leave family and friends behind, it was a relief to escape the violence in Cambodia.

"It was just as bad as a lot of the mass killings you hear about," Ho said.

Ho's parents moved to Baker after a church and a couple there sponsored them, and the families have remained close over the years. "I consider them my grandparents," Ho said. "Every family reunion they've ever had, we've been invited to."

She considers herself lucky to have been brought up in Baker. Still, she said, there were challenges.

Communicating with her parents has always been difficult because of a language barrier, since Ho's parents did not teach their children to speak in the couple's native Chinese.

"I can tell my parents are thinking in Chinese. Something is always lost a little bit in translation," she said. "That's a hard thing to overcome."

"I asked Dad later why he didn't teach us Chinese, and he said he wanted us to be American, " Ho added. "He had no idea how valuable it would be to be bilingual in Chinese now."

Ho and her two older siblings all worked hard during high school and each graduated at the top of their classes, she said.

Their work paid off. Ho's older brother now holds a job with the government in New Mexico, and her older sister teaches English in Taiwan.

The youngest, Julie Ho was recruited for the 400 meter hurdles and came to MSU on a track scholarship. Though injuries prevented her from continuing on the team beyond her first year - she had surgery on both of her knees at the same time - she said she has fully funded her college education through scholarships and student employment.

She's also made her mark on campus through numerous leadership and volunteer positions. From serving for two years as a freshman orientation leader to volunteering to read to kindergarteners and mentoring gifted children, Ho has been an active participant in the MSU and Bozeman communities. She's received numerous awards for her accomplishments, including being named a Rotary Student of the Month.

She loves the area for its beauty as well as the friendly and supportive community, and she enjoys horseback riding, tae kwon do, hiking and road biking in her free time.

But Ho hasn't limited her backyard to Bozeman during college.

A semester-long exchange program in Galway, Ireland and a five-week internship in Tokyo whetted Ho's appetite for international travel.

"When people say studying abroad can change your life, it's so true," she said. "It was so big for me."

Now, she's looking forward to traveling to Asia and then moving in June to Huntington Beach, Calif., where she has a prestigious two-year position lined up at Boeing.

As part of the company's Business Careers Foundation Program, Ho will spend two years rotating through six different positions at Boeing, including finance, accounting, contracts and procurement.

"It's part of an intense employee development and training program," she explained.

Law school is a possibility down the road, and she'd also like her career to involve international work and traveling.

For now, though, Ho is relishing the opportunities that are just a few months away.

"It's going to be big to see where my parents grew up," she said. "I accept where I've come from. I'm 100 percent American with Chinese blood."

Julie M. Ho, julie.ho@myportal.montana.edu

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

You see what I mean? It is hard
to learn about your own heritage
and tradition when you are not
in Cambodia. Your parent can't
teached you everything. You are
constantly have to keep up with
your local society, TV, politic,
... or what have you. Even the
short trip to Cambodia isn't going
to do much. I have estimated that
people who lived abroad will lost
about 66% of knowledge about Khmer
tradition and heritage between
each generation, not to say that
it is bad to lose your heritage.
We understand that in order to
succeed abroad, one must master
the country language ... and we
are in full support of it, so long
they don't come back to bash us
or to try to wipe out our tradition
.... just because they are used to
a different culture.

Anonymous said...

*Bashes baboon with a club*

Congrats to Julie. Good to see Cambodians doing well.

Anonymous said...

Where did I bashed. I just trying
to explain the difficulty to
maintained your Khmer culture
abroad, that is all, puppy face.

Anonymous said...

lol you silly baboon. When quoting with asterisks (*) it means an action. I'm bashing you with a club because you said "so long
they don't come back to bash us". So i'm bashing you physically :p

*Sigh* No fun being a smart arse to you because you're too old to understand.

Anonymous said...

that fool is talking again?! i told you not to say anything fool. can't you listen? you are better of talking to yourself!

Anonymous said...

Oh, that is very sweet of you,
sweetie pie8:35. *French Kisses,
Muah!* Feel better, now?

Anonymous said...

Hi folks,

Consider the following statements Ms. Ho has made:

Ho's parents immigrated to the United States in 1980 as "CAMBODIAN REFUGEES", and Ho thinks it's important to visit the country. "It tells a lot about a person. I can't wait to experience 'WHERE THEY GREW UP'," she said.

Communicating with her parents has always been difficult because of a language barrier, since Ho's "PARENTS DID NOT TEACH THEIR CHILDREN TO SPEAK IN THE COUPLE'S NATIVE CHINESE."

"I CAN TELL MY PARENTS ARE THINKING IN CHINESE. Something is always lost a little bit in translation," she said. "That's a hard thing to overcome."

"I asked Dad later 'WHY HE DIDN'T TEACH US CHINESE, and he said he wanted us to be American, " Ho added. "He had no idea how valuable it would be 'TO BE BILINGUAL IN CHINESE NOW."

"It's going to be big to see 'WHERE MY PARENTS GREW UP," she said. "I ACCEPT WHERE I'VE COME FROM. I'M 100 PERCENT AMERICAN WITH CHINESE BLOOD."

Isn't that something? Deliberately and well thought out.

Chouk Chap Nas, Khmer!

Anonymous said...

Power to her. Her parents can't speak Chinese but Khmer, and they were born In Cambodia, or they're Khmers born to an ethnic Chinese.

Every body can be proud to whoever they feel like or happy with it, it is their freedom to choose. I'm Khmer_British and proud to be Khmer although I was not born in Cambodia or have not yet visited Cambodia, but I send money to help my poor Khmer people at least I save 4 kids/day. Anyone wants to say I brag I don't care but I hate people who turn their back on Cambodia the land they were born and/or grew up in time suffering.


Kaun Khmer all the way.
Long/tall small nose and Hazel eyes but I will always be a Kaun Khmer until all the stars will be all burned away.

GOD SAVE THE KING
GOD SAVE CAMBODIA & HER PEOPLE

VIVA CAMBODIA

Anonymous said...

Kaun Khmer, that is what I have
been saying all along. Many
Chinese people who live in
Cambodia for 4 or more generations
can't speak Chinese. Even when
they live in a chinese
neighborhood, they will still lose
most of their heritage and
tradition from the Khmer
influence. They will all feel more
Khmer than they do Chinese.

And that goes for all Khmer Krom
in South Vietnam as well as UK,
AU,..., and US, except for a very
SMALL number of people who never
go out from their home due to
fobia or whatever.

Anonymous said...

I am so disappointed to hear you are 100% American and Chinese, howerver your parents are full with Cambodian and Chinese traidtion. So, please you share some Cambodian culture.

Hopefully, I could see you at anytime.