Sunday, April 29, 2007

Survivor of Cambodian horrors meets her bloody fate in S. Phila.

'Saddest thing is we lost her right here'

Survivor of Cambodian horrors meets her bloody fate in S. Phila.

By JULIE SHAW
Philly.com (Philadelphia, Penn., USA)

ONE OF nine brothers and sisters, Nimol Tep, 40, survived the Khmer Rouge "killing fields" period in Cambodia in the late 1970s.

A decade later, she almost drowned when she tried to flee to Australia for a better future. She lived in Cambodia most of her life, then came to this country legally two years ago, living first in Connecticut before coming to Philly.

Then she, along with her 47-year-old roommate, were stabbed to death Wednesday in their South Philadelphia apartment, allegedly after an acquaintance of her roommate had an argument with the older woman over money.

Tep just happened to be in the apartment on 7th Street, near Jackson, at that time. She moved there just two months ago.

Yesterday, two of her brothers recalled a friendly, outgoing woman who liked Philadelphia because of its Cambodian community.

"The saddest thing," said brother Sunheang Tep, 52, as he stood at the doorway of his sister's second-floor apartment, atop a flight of gray-carpeted stairs, "was we went through the hard time together" of surviving the wrath of the Khmer Rouge in Cambodia.

"We didn't lose anyone," he said, speaking just a few feet from where stains of dry blood smeared the white tiles inside the apartment. "The saddest thing is we lost her right here."

"Pretty much everyone's sad about it, especially my parents back in Phnom Penh," the capital of Cambodia, where they live, said Sunheang, who flew into Philadelphia yesterday morning from his home in Rochester, N.Y. Since then, he has had to identify his sister's body and is now preparing for her funeral.

Sunheang and brother Sivhuot Tep, 49, who lives near Bristol, Conn., stopped inside Nimol's apartment yesterday "to collect memories of her," Sunheang said, as he showed a 2005 photo of his sister smiling at Niagara Falls.

The brothers said they did not know how their younger sister came to befriend her Philadelphia roommate, also a Cambodian immigrant. Police have not released the roommate's name because her next of kin has yet to be notified of her death.

In Connecticut, where Nimol lived with Sivhuot, his wife and children for nearly two years, she had worked in a factory assembling electrical supplies, her brothers said.

She then told them she was moving in with her friend in Philadelphia. She thought she could earn more money here, Sunheang said. Plus, Connecticut was too quiet.

"She said she liked it here because she had some friends," Sunheang said. "In the Connecticut suburbs, she had nobody to talk to. There were not a lot of Cambodians. Over here, everywhere you turn, there are Cambodian people" in this area of South Philadelphia, he said.

His sister spoke "very little English" and was learning the language.

Nimol wanted to earn more money so she could return to Cambodia in July to see their parents, Sunheang said. Then she planned to return to the States to move in with a younger sister near Los Angeles.

Police have said that Sambo Nou, 21, who lived a few blocks away from the women, has confessed to stabbing Nimol Tep and her roommate to death in their apartment about 5 to 5:30 p.m. Wednesday.

Nou, of Jackson Street near 4th, knew the older woman because she was a friend of his mother's. In the women's apartment, Nou argued with the older woman about a cell-phone bill and about borrowing some money, Homicide Sgt. Anthony McFadden has said. Then Nou allegedly stabbed the older woman, then allegedly stabbed Tep after she came out of the shower.

The two women worked at a clothing manufacturing company. Their bodies were discovered Thursday morning by a resident who lived above them after they failed to go outside to a van waiting to pick them up for work.

A middle child, Nimol Tep was born in an island village in the Koh Sotin district of Cambodia's Kampong Cham province. The family later moved to Phnom Penh, but didn't stay long.

In April 1975 the Communist Khmer Rouge captured the capital. Soon after, Khmer Rouge soldiers evacuated residents from cities, forcing people to live and work in the countryside.

From 1975 to 1979, a period termed the "killing fields," an estimated 1 to 2 million people died from starvation and disease or were brutally executed under Khmer Rouge dictator Pol Pot's rule.

There was "no school, no shop, no currency," Sunheang Tep said. "We live like prisoners, like third-class citizens." The Tep family was forced to leave Phnom Penh and lived in the countryside in Khampong Thom.

After Vietnam invaded Cambodia in late 1978, Sunheang Tep was able to flee the country by walking to the border and into Thailand, where he spent two years in a refugee camp. From there, he was the first in the family to come to the United States as a refugee.

As for Nimol and the rest of the family, they were able to move back to Phnom Penh around 1980, the brothers said.

Around the late 1980s, she and her younger sister, who now lives in California, tried to flee Cambodia for a better life in Australia.

"She wanted to get out of the country," said Sunheang. "It was still communist." They traveled in a "small boat. All I know was it was not a big commercial boat."

The boat sank in a storm. The sisters were rescued and taken to a refugee camp in Indonesia. After two years, they were sent back home to Phnom Penh.

Unmarried, Nimol "just stayed home in Phnom Penh and take care of our parents," Sunheang said. Then after 20 years of his having petitioned the U.S. government, it gave his sister permission to move here two years ago.

Staff writer Christine Olley contributed to this article.

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Here's a different one for you.

http://www.thenewstribune.com/311/story/46493.html

Anonymous said...

what a fucken coward this guy must be...stabbing two women to death over allegedly phone bill and money.

Anonymous said...

Shttttt ... not so loud, dude. We
don't want this sort of thing to
come to cambodia.

Anonymous said...

This particular article hits home, it happened up the street from my mother's house, and I am sorry to say that I k new the guy ever since we we're little. It's sad what happened and it is a horrible crime that he committed. It's not bad enough that these ladies went through a lot of pain and suffering and survived it but to still strive and try to make a better lift for themselves and to have someone take all that away from then and to take them away from there families,IT SUCKS

Anonymous said...

All those guys, who live in Philly are just a bunch of Gangsters... so before you moved to Philadelphia especially to Philly,, you better think twice... they live in a low live..inspire by the black American...so now cambodian boys are having that traits. Very bad.

Anonymous said...

you don't know $hit about Philly and it's people involved. So I suggest you shut the #uck up before you get stabbed too. A bunch of ignorant people like you don't deserve to live. I beleive everything happens for a reason. No one really know what his motives were and why he did it. I've lived in Philly all my life and it's a good community. It's just stupid ignorant #ucks like you that ticks a person off. I'm not suprised the guy that Massacred V-Tech ticked off the way he did. Keep pressing peoples button. Think before you speak and never judge...let God do his judging. Never judge a book by its cover. If it's your time to go it's your time. You can't do nothing about it. Need I say more?

Anonymous said...

I went to school with Sambo. I'm still in shock, he was such a great kid. He had good grades and good looks but just started to hang with the wrong crowd, which is not unique to the kids growing up in Philly these days. I miss him and wish he made better choices, but he still has to pay for what he did. Good thing he confessed for being as stupid as he was.

Anonymous said...

To whomever stereotyped Philadelphia's Cambodians as being gangsters, you are wrong. It's just like stereotyping all Asians as being smart in math or Asian girls as having no figures or Asian guys only having a short "brother". If you have never been to Philly, I suggest you shouldn't say a thing. We have guys here who are in school, working, and opening their own stores. They have grown out of that "gangster" fad, they are community overseers and fathers. As for Sambo, I know his twin and the little crowd they hang with. THey are not bad kids but it still shocked us all with what he has done or confessed too. Sambo's a good kid, even the oldheads have nothing bad to say about him.
Anyway, a lot of people suspect that there was another person involved and the neighborood these ladies lived in wasn't safe in the first place. THere's a lot of factors that conflict with each other which doesn't add up.
To the women who met an unfortunate death, I hope their families will find an answer soon as well as Sambo's family who too are clueless.
Another reminder before posting, please keep an open mind about these things because the media tends to make minorities look stupid which has already turned our own Cambodian people against us even though they don't know us but for the fact that we're from Philly.

Anonymous said...

I know that I am late but first listen. I knew Sambo personally and it hurted everyone who loved him. He was the kind of kid that everyone adore. Kind-hearted, soft spoken, well educated, friendly, respectful and there is nothing bad to say about him. Noone knew what really happened that day. I do believe everything happen for a reason.

And for that ignorant person who speak negative about Philly. Get your fact straight. There is nothing wrong with this city not your city doesnt lack.

I, myself lived here for over 25 years and is well educated. I know many people who once ran the street and now are educated and full of wealth. You just may be intimided by us PHILLY people. You just scared. ha ha ha

Much love to Sambo and his family and to the two ladies and their family.

Anonymous said...

Shit happens, fuck everyone, FREE BOBO!...and god bless his family. Nobody knows what the person's family who committed the crime goes through. Shit is always one sided.