Monday, September 04, 2006

Views on Adultery Law Reveal Battle of the Sexes

Monday, September 4, 2006

By Yun Samean and John Maloy
THE CAMBODIA DAILY

On the streets of Phnom Penh Sunday, opinions on a new law that would criminalize adultery were nearly unanimous: Women thought it was a great idea. Men said it’s a terrible one.

The National Assembly passed the law Friday, proscribing penalties of up to a year in prison for those who engage in extramarital affairs.

Hawking fruit next to the Chaktomuk Theater Sunday, Sum Pom, 28, said she and most of her friends greeted the news with enthusiasm. But she added: "We are still not sure if our husbands will stay loyal because we cannot watch them 24 hours."

It was a sentiment heard often Sunday.

A 19-year-old female CD vendor near NagaCorp casino who would give her name only as Dy, said that although she is not married, she believes the law will help create more harmonious marriages.

She said the law would probably most affect men, as they are more likely to go out at night.

Most men agreed, complaining the law could be abused, and condemning it as an affront to their basic freedoms.

"Men will be the victims," said photographer Leng Kom Chhoeurng, 43, adding that jealous and paranoid wives may file complaints even if husbands have done nothing wrong.

"Sexual desire can not be prevented and men cannot always have just one partner," motorbike taxi driver Kim Ly, 38, argued.

Kim Ly said he fears the law will be selectively used to target the poor while the rich will be able to carry on affairs with impunity.

Word of the draconian new law has already spread into the provinces, according to Funcinpec lawmaker Khieu San. Khieu San said his constituents in Kandal province complained the law is too extreme.

It was met with particular scorn by boat racers planning to converge on Phnom Penh in November for the annual Water Festival. Many are displeased with the law because they hope to sleep with prostitutes during their visit, he said.

Sek Barisoth, anti-corruption coordinator for the NGO PACT Cambodia, said that he was surprised that the Assembly passed two laws he considers to be unimportant within days but have still not voted on the long-awaited anti-corruption law. On Wednesday, the Assembly passed a law curtailing the rights of lawmakers to speak freely in parliament.

Sek Barisoth said the anticorrup-tion law, which has been more than a decade in the making, is essentially finished. No more time is needed to get it to the floor for a vote, he said, adding that he believes the delay is the result of "political intent rather than any technical problems."

CPP lawmaker Cheam Yeap countered that the draconian morality law is necessary to protect Cambodians from the negative influence of foreign culture.

In foreign countries "wives and husbands always have lovers when their spouse is busy for a few days," he said.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Crazy lawmakers who votes for this unimportant law to our poor country...! Why dont they start deciding on Anti-Corruption law instead ?? They are fucking lawmakers...so stop voting for them next election season anymore next 2 years. right??? They spent state money alots but nothing comes to be vital for our beloved people...

From one student living abroad..

Anonymous said...

It is the CPP women who voted for this law! By passing this law and more Cambodian women have more free time to be a nanny! ahahahah


To be a nanny most women are treated like animal! These women endure sexual abuse, mental abuse, some are starved and some are forced to work 24hrs aday! AH HUN SEN used to promote nanny job for Cambodian women! I didn't know that Cambodian women are so stupid!

Now go back to work nanny!