CAMBODIAN WOMAN 'WAS SUPPOSED TO BE SAFE IN THIS COUNTRY'
07/26/2007
By Jessie Mangaliman
Mercury News (San Jose, Calif., USA)
Sany San survived a modern-day genocide in Cambodia, and after arriving in the United States four years ago, it seemed as if she had finally been delivered from harm's way.
But on a quiet Sunday morning, on her way to catch a bus to her job at a doughnut shop, San's life was cut short in an attack so violent that it has left police, her relatives and many in San Jose's Cambodian-American community in shock and disbelief.
"She was supposed to be safe in this country," said Jennifer Chan, vice president of the Cambodian Women's Association in San Jose. "But we couldn't protect her."
Two men, described by police as transients, were arraigned Wednesday in Santa Clara County Superior Court in connection with the crime, charged with murder, robbery and sexual assault.
According to investigators, San's attackers approached her as she neared Knox Avenue on Story Road shortly after 6 a.m. It was about a mile from where she was staying.
The two men first talked with San, 46, who is 5-feet-2-inches tall and weighs 110 pounds, apparently intending to rob her. They then began to beat her, dragging her behind bushes, where they took turns sexually assaulting her. Then they stabbed her repeatedly, leaving her to die.
Officer Enrique Garcia described it as the "most vicious, violent and monstrous crime" San Jose has witnessed in years.
Wednesday, during a tearful interview at her East San Jose home, San's aunt, Sokhim Sann, said one of the hardest things to accept was that her niece, on a normal day, never would have been walking on the stretch of road where she was killed.
"I usually give her a ride to the bus station near De La Cruz Boulevard" in Santa Clara, Sann said.
San usually caught the bus from that station to an unidentified doughnut shop near Palo Alto where she worked as a janitor.
Twist of fate
But Sunday morning, Sann was not feeling well. Without complaint, San, who had only been in San Jose since April, said she would take the bus from Story Road.
"When you look at her, you wouldn't think she's been through all these hardships," said San's cousin, Ratana Kim. "But the lives of many Cambodians are about hardship and sacrifice. And she embodied that."
San was born in Phnom Penh, Cambodia's capital, the eldest of eight children in a middle-class family. Her father was a university professor who taught Khmer, the Cambodian language, and her mother was a homemaker.
In high school, she studied Khmer and English, said Sann, 52, and she had expressed interest in attending university.
During the genocidal campaign of the Khmer Rouge, the communist organization that ruled and terrorized Cambodia from 1975-79, San's father, Him Kao, was executed by soldiers. An estimated 3 million people died during the Khmer Rouge rule.
San, her mother, Muykeh, 64, and her siblings fled the city for Battambang, in northwest Cambodia. Soon, the family was captured and sent to forced labor camps, where three of her five brothers died. For a time San was with her two sisters at one of the Khmer Rouge's so-called re-education camps, where young people were indoctrinated and forced to dig ditches. Eventually they, too, were separated.
San - showing her quiet, steely will - escaped from her camp and walked for days in search of the camp where her sisters were being held, Sann said. San found one sister. During their flight from the Khmer Rouge camp, San walked across a neck-deep lake, with her sister on her shoulders.
The other sister was killed by the Khmer Rouge.
Heavy responsibilities
San was 18 when the Khmer Rouge regime ended. With her father dead, and as the oldest child, she became the head of her household - witness and survivor to one of the century's worst atrocities. As her family's sole breadwinner, she took up work as a market vendor and a seamstress. Once while she was working at the market, a burning gasoline hose struck her legs. She couldn't work for a year.
"She's someone who didn't like to trouble other people," Kim said. "She never thought of herself and she's very, very caring."
San continued to support her family, even after she moved to America, Sann said. She sent most of her wages to Battambang, where her mother, one brother and one sister still live in a small house.
Coming to the United States was a dream San had long nursed, even though she and her family had missed the opportunity to leave Cambodia as refugees during the Khmer Rouge years, Sann said.
"She spent everyday worrying about how to feed her family," Sann said, in tears. "She really wanted to come and she was willing to do anything because she thought she could find a better living."
Four years ago, San arrived in San Jose with a temporary tourist visa. She lived for several months with relatives, then moved to Modesto to join a friend who worked at a doughnut shop. She stayed in Modesto for three years, working to clean the shop.
In April, she returned to San Jose after her friend left the Modesto job. She stayed with her aunt and found another job cleaning a doughnut shop, this one near Palo Alto.
Her temporary visa had long expired, making her an undocumented immigrant.
Three days before she was slain, Sany San told her relatives, "It didn't matter I never married. The important thing was I got here and I'm helping my family."
In Khmer culture, the Cambodian culture, the virtue of Sany San's life was her sacrifice, her aunt said.
Her life, she said, was her family and not herself. That she was not married, was never in a relationship, "made her pure in Khmer tradition."
"Her violation is what disturbs so many of us in the Cambodian community," Kim said. "For her life to end like this is devastating."
IF YOU'RE INTERESTED
Send memorial contributions, which will be used by San's family to pay for funeral services, to the San Jose Police Officers' Association, 1151 N. Fourth St., San Jose, Calif. 95112. For more information, call (408) 298-1133.
Contact Jessie Mangaliman at jmangaliman@mercurynews.com or (408) 920-5794.
07/26/2007
By Jessie Mangaliman
Mercury News (San Jose, Calif., USA)
Sany San survived a modern-day genocide in Cambodia, and after arriving in the United States four years ago, it seemed as if she had finally been delivered from harm's way.
But on a quiet Sunday morning, on her way to catch a bus to her job at a doughnut shop, San's life was cut short in an attack so violent that it has left police, her relatives and many in San Jose's Cambodian-American community in shock and disbelief.
"She was supposed to be safe in this country," said Jennifer Chan, vice president of the Cambodian Women's Association in San Jose. "But we couldn't protect her."
Two men, described by police as transients, were arraigned Wednesday in Santa Clara County Superior Court in connection with the crime, charged with murder, robbery and sexual assault.
According to investigators, San's attackers approached her as she neared Knox Avenue on Story Road shortly after 6 a.m. It was about a mile from where she was staying.
The two men first talked with San, 46, who is 5-feet-2-inches tall and weighs 110 pounds, apparently intending to rob her. They then began to beat her, dragging her behind bushes, where they took turns sexually assaulting her. Then they stabbed her repeatedly, leaving her to die.
Officer Enrique Garcia described it as the "most vicious, violent and monstrous crime" San Jose has witnessed in years.
Wednesday, during a tearful interview at her East San Jose home, San's aunt, Sokhim Sann, said one of the hardest things to accept was that her niece, on a normal day, never would have been walking on the stretch of road where she was killed.
"I usually give her a ride to the bus station near De La Cruz Boulevard" in Santa Clara, Sann said.
San usually caught the bus from that station to an unidentified doughnut shop near Palo Alto where she worked as a janitor.
Twist of fate
But Sunday morning, Sann was not feeling well. Without complaint, San, who had only been in San Jose since April, said she would take the bus from Story Road.
"When you look at her, you wouldn't think she's been through all these hardships," said San's cousin, Ratana Kim. "But the lives of many Cambodians are about hardship and sacrifice. And she embodied that."
San was born in Phnom Penh, Cambodia's capital, the eldest of eight children in a middle-class family. Her father was a university professor who taught Khmer, the Cambodian language, and her mother was a homemaker.
In high school, she studied Khmer and English, said Sann, 52, and she had expressed interest in attending university.
During the genocidal campaign of the Khmer Rouge, the communist organization that ruled and terrorized Cambodia from 1975-79, San's father, Him Kao, was executed by soldiers. An estimated 3 million people died during the Khmer Rouge rule.
San, her mother, Muykeh, 64, and her siblings fled the city for Battambang, in northwest Cambodia. Soon, the family was captured and sent to forced labor camps, where three of her five brothers died. For a time San was with her two sisters at one of the Khmer Rouge's so-called re-education camps, where young people were indoctrinated and forced to dig ditches. Eventually they, too, were separated.
San - showing her quiet, steely will - escaped from her camp and walked for days in search of the camp where her sisters were being held, Sann said. San found one sister. During their flight from the Khmer Rouge camp, San walked across a neck-deep lake, with her sister on her shoulders.
The other sister was killed by the Khmer Rouge.
Heavy responsibilities
San was 18 when the Khmer Rouge regime ended. With her father dead, and as the oldest child, she became the head of her household - witness and survivor to one of the century's worst atrocities. As her family's sole breadwinner, she took up work as a market vendor and a seamstress. Once while she was working at the market, a burning gasoline hose struck her legs. She couldn't work for a year.
"She's someone who didn't like to trouble other people," Kim said. "She never thought of herself and she's very, very caring."
San continued to support her family, even after she moved to America, Sann said. She sent most of her wages to Battambang, where her mother, one brother and one sister still live in a small house.
Coming to the United States was a dream San had long nursed, even though she and her family had missed the opportunity to leave Cambodia as refugees during the Khmer Rouge years, Sann said.
"She spent everyday worrying about how to feed her family," Sann said, in tears. "She really wanted to come and she was willing to do anything because she thought she could find a better living."
Four years ago, San arrived in San Jose with a temporary tourist visa. She lived for several months with relatives, then moved to Modesto to join a friend who worked at a doughnut shop. She stayed in Modesto for three years, working to clean the shop.
In April, she returned to San Jose after her friend left the Modesto job. She stayed with her aunt and found another job cleaning a doughnut shop, this one near Palo Alto.
Her temporary visa had long expired, making her an undocumented immigrant.
Three days before she was slain, Sany San told her relatives, "It didn't matter I never married. The important thing was I got here and I'm helping my family."
In Khmer culture, the Cambodian culture, the virtue of Sany San's life was her sacrifice, her aunt said.
Her life, she said, was her family and not herself. That she was not married, was never in a relationship, "made her pure in Khmer tradition."
"Her violation is what disturbs so many of us in the Cambodian community," Kim said. "For her life to end like this is devastating."
IF YOU'RE INTERESTED
Send memorial contributions, which will be used by San's family to pay for funeral services, to the San Jose Police Officers' Association, 1151 N. Fourth St., San Jose, Calif. 95112. For more information, call (408) 298-1133.
Contact Jessie Mangaliman at jmangaliman@mercurynews.com or (408) 920-5794.
2 comments:
I cry tears of sorrow and my heart breaks for Sany San and her family. I can only pray that there her soul has moved on to a happy place. I pray that her family holds onto happy memories of her and keep an image of Sany - safe, whole, and happy.
From a sorrow-filled woman in Santa Clara.
This is extremely painful and disturbing, both on a geographical and community level. As a first generation Cambodian, the story of San is very similar to many of us who endured genocide and multiple hardships. It's disappointing to realize that for some, the struggle to work hard for a better life equals a reality that puts them at risk. I'll be driving by the area this Sunday and holding back anger, tears, and nightmares. I will pray for her and her family. Losing someone you love is horrific. Losing someone you love to a heinous crime is unforgettable.
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