Monday, June 23, 2008

"Stop Abusing Cambodian Brides," Envoy Asks

Cambodian Ambassador to Seoul Lim Samkol

Amb. Lim Samkol Asks for Better Treatment of Cambodian Brides, Migrant Workers in South Korea

Monday, June 23, 2008
The Seoul Times

Cambodian Ambassador to Seoul Lim Samkol said "Cambodian women are not products," referring to Cambodian brides married to South Koreans, in a recent interview with a local vernacular daily.

In April, 2008 Cambodian government stopped temporarily issuing visas to those who marry Cambodian ladies. The move was taken as there were a number of cases in which Cambodian brides were mistreated or abused by foreign husbands.

In 2007 Vietnamese government bolstered regulations on international marriage after a Vietnamese woman was murdered by her South Korean husband.

As the number of foreign brides from the Philippines, Vietnam, Cambodia, and other Southeast Asian countries rise, cases of mistreating or abusing them also increase. There is a strong demand for improving human rights for those foreign brides.

In an interview with Kyunghyang Shinmun on June 10, 2008 at Cambodian Embassy in Seoul's Hannam-dong, the 60-year-old Cambodian envoy requested that South Korean people accept Cambodian bride as a new member of the family and try to understand the cultural difference.

He said "Cambodian women are not products." He was referring to the Cambodian women married to South Korean men who normally pay money for the marriage.

Asked about the backgrounds of stoppage of visa issuance he said that Cambodian government needed to make laws on international marriage to ward off rising cases of abuse against Cambodian brides abroad.

But he said that the visa stoppage is not only applied to South Koreans but also all the other nationalities.

He said that the government needed to protect Cambodian women going abroad for international marriage. As more and more Cambodian women go abroad after marriage cases of abusing them increase as well.

There are so many problems such as human trafficking, sex trade, child abuse, and physical and mental dieases involving Cambodian women who marry foreigners.

The Cambodian envoy even introduced a rumor that in Taiwan, a Taiwanese man even sold his Cambodian wife to the human trafficking ring.

Regarding Cambodian women marrying South Koreans, the Cambodain envoy pinpointed Korean men's lack of understanding about their Cambodian wife and its tradition and culture.

Most of the expense South Korean bridegroom pays go to marriage agency not to the bride's family, according to the Cambodian envoy.

"We do not want Cambodian women to be treated as a product," said Amb. Lim Samkol. "South Korean men should treat Cambodian wife with respect."

International marraige between South Korean men and Cambodian women should be in a way that is mutually benefitial to both countries.

Marriage agencies should also not seek only money but mind more about public and moral aspect of it.

He gave his personal thoughts that Cambodian women marrying Koreans had better learn Korean language for at least three months before they leave Cambodia.

And for those who are already in South Korea should be give a chance to learn Korean language.

The Cambodian ambassador stressed Cambodian brides' relations with her South Korean in-laws.

In particular, Korean husband, mother in law, sisters in law, and other members of the family should understand the Cambodian bride enough.

He said that the Cambodian Embassy in Seoul is in need of helping the Cambodian women married to South Koreans. He needs supports from South Korean government for that.

Regarding the overall ties between Cambodia and South Korea, economic cooperations between the two countries has been consolidated steadily since the reopening of the diplomatic ties in 1997.

Since 2004 the number of South Korean tourists visitng Cambodia drastically increased.

Presently, about 3,500 immigrant workers from Cambodia are staying in South Korea, and the number of Cambodian brides in South Korea is estimated at 2,5000.

As part of ASEAN members, Cambodia is also participating in the FTA (free trade agreement) negotiations with South Korea.

Also, the leader of Cambodia, Prime Minister Hun Sen is expected to play role of mediator between Pyongyang and Seoul for the denuclearization of the Korean Peninsula, the Cambodian envoy said.

Amb. Lim Samkol came to Seoul in November, 2004 for his diplomatic position. Since his arrival he has been very active in promoting mutual ties. Previously, he served at such Eastern countries as Czech and Slovak republics.

Before he became a diplomat, he worked as a high school math teacher. He earned his master's degree in international law from Moscow State Institute of International Relations (MGIMO).

Questioned about his impression about Korea and Korean people, "Koreans are dynamic and active, and Korea is similar to Cambodia in historical experience, morals and customs," he said.

"I expect more Korean people can visit Cambodia," he said at the end of his interview.

For details or inquiries please contact the Cambodian Embassy in Seoul at 3785-1041.

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

Marriage is not a game its a commitment for life, we need tougher laws for country who abuse the Khmer women.

The something call divorce if your not happy with your wife, not murder, nor mistreatment or abuse.

Be civilized Korea, live to your image that you present to the world.

Anonymous said...

Be wise, and value yourselves cambodian ladies, you should think wisely why those poor korean men want to marry you....( I can give you a reason : the korean women don't want to marry to poor korean men).. you are still be able to live in happy life,walk slowly and wisely...

Anonymous said...

Some girls have no hope to live in cambodia and they take chance and risk their lives to marry foreigners. The only safer way for them is to give them hope and better future to live in cambodia close to their friends and families.

Anonymous said...

I've wondered. Is this ban just happened just for those ladies got marry to Asian countries only or what? Because Asian countries such as (Taiwan, Malaysia, South Korea, Japan etc.) except for Japan they have better human rights policy. I've heard that those who went to Malaysia got worst treatment too cause you know Malaysia have mix alot of Chinese there. Chinese-Malaysian mistreated those woman as well. USA, Canada, Australia I have not heard anything that they can't sponsor wife or birde over. They still going on. Well because these countries have better human rights policy. But for the sake of those women please don't send your daughters or the actual individual please don't go live under these countries (Taiwan, South Korea, Malaysia ets.,). USA, Canada, Australia or some European countries are the choice to go.

Anonymous said...

It is senseless to ask that the abuse be stopped or lightened. It is nature of the people. This is much like talking to the mosquitoes to stop biting and sucking blood and injecting the disease. It's stupid and senseless. Stop the Khmer women from making such foolish adventure or stop writing about their sorrow. Live poorly with your family at home or go to hell in another faraway land and stop crying. Just bear your sorrow until you die, you stupid people.

Anonymous said...

8:41 P.M That is you who is useless and senseless, because YOU have never been in the poor situation like majority of Khmer people!

Anonymous said...

You oughta realize that because we are poor and naive these other foreigners enjoy taking advantage of us. Be poor but safe and sound with your family rather than making an advanture into the unknown world where custom and language are totally strange to you. It is rare that you'll find fortune there, but fear and abuse and even death in a silent place and no one knows or cares. Stay home and do all that you can to survive. If you'll die under the poverty at least you'll die with your loved ones and friends and neighbors around you. In a foreign land like Korea you may never survive their custom and language. No matter how hard it is - just live at home and do all that you can to survive day by day.

Anonymous said...

thank you mr. ambassador for protecting khmer people's rights. god bless.

Anonymous said...

8:41 pm, You are animal.

Anonymous said...

So 8:41 pm, when your father abuse your mother you thing this is okay.

Anonymous said...

8:41 pm, are you speaking about your mother?

Anonymous said...

I got a report from the police
8:41PM was adopted by a gay couple, and they are used to whip each other and fucking each other in the ass violently.
So you have to understand his background.

Anonymous said...

leave stupid 8:41 alone, he has mental problem , his mother was raped by hundreds of fools.., and his father is one among them...that is why he got the DNA like that...

Anonymous said...

Many of you, or just one stupid person wrote again and again, are unspeakably stupid and helpless. Allow your mother or sisters to be the sex slaves and hope to send money to you. You stupid trash. "Give me liberty or give me death" Do you stupid monkeys know who wrote this what it means to the life of a human. You're animals that would survive on even shit... what evere it is as long as it is survivable to you. You damn trashy animals. Can you a value in a woman? Or does it matter at all if your mother/sister is a sex slave for as long as she can makes some money? What kind of animals are you? Humans would value life as humans. And apparently you're from some animals. Your life is a shitty one.