Family mourns father who saved wife, sons from Cambodian genocide to settle in U.S.
Monday, September 29, 2008
By Melissa Nix - mnix@sacbee.com
Sacramento Bee (California, USA)
A man who managed to escape Cambodia's killing fields, bringing his young family to the United States for a new life, was killed early Sunday by a motorist who authorities said was heading the wrong way on Interstate 5.
Yoeun Sum, 56, of Stockton, was driving his wife, son, daughter-in-law and granddaughter home from a family wedding in Willits when a BMW sedan hit his Toyota Camry head-on, the California Highway Patrol said Sunday.
Donald Vanness, 57, of Woodbridge, was driving the BMW north in the southbound lanes of I-5 and also died in the collision at Hood Franklin Road at 2:49 a.m.
Sum had escaped Cambodia nearly 30 years ago, fleeing with his wife and two young sons to avoid the genocide that took the lives of 1.7 million people.
But Sunday, Sum couldn't avoid the BMW hurtling at his family. His daughter and grandson, traveling in a car ahead of his, had a narrow escape when her husband swerved at the last moment.
"I saw a car come out of nowhere, and my husband barely dodged it," said Monyan Van, 22. "It then hit the other car," carrying her parents.
Van and other family members sat in an intensive-care waiting room while their mother, Sokpov Van, 55, was in surgery at Mercy San Juan Medical Center off Coyle Avenue in Carmichael.
She had a concussion, a broken rib and a broken leg, and is listed in serious condition. She didn't know that her husband had died in the crash, according to their son, Thoeun Van, 26, of Stockton.
Sum's Camry burned after the crash. The fire was put out, and the victims were removed from the vehicle by firefighters from the Cosumnes Community Services District Fire Department.
Sum died at the crash scene, officials said. Four other family members in the car were taken to different hospitals.
Thoeun Van said Sunday that his sister's 5-month-old daughter, Tyana Kylie Youen-Chanhkhiao, his brother, Chandra Van, 21, and his sister-in-law Chao Yang, 20, had been transported to UC Davis Medical Center.
The infant was released from the hospital late Sunday morning. Chao Yang remained on life support, while her husband Chandra Van was in stable condition, he said.
Vanness was pronounced dead at UC Davis Medical Center.
Officer Michael Bradley, a spokesman, said the CHP has launched a DUI investigation.
Officials said an off-duty police officer saw the BMW going north in the southbound lanes moments before the crash, and he tried to warn motorists by flashing his lights.
He also assisted victims, along with the Fire Department, which sent six ambulances and five engines. Firefighters had to pry open both vehicles to get the victims out, said fire spokesman Steve Capps.
Thoeun Van said his parents escaped from Cambodia to Thailand with him and his brother Sam, now 28.
"They tried to kill my mom," he said, referring to Khmer Rouge revolutionaries.
But in what he described as a close call, his mother fainted. When the Khmer Rouge left her for dead, the family made its escape.
All of their mother's relatives were killed, said Monyan Van, Thoeun's sister.
From Thailand, the family made its way to Vietnam, where Sum worked as a refugee camp leader, according to a document his son showed Sunday.
The family eventually settled in Alabama. Sum worked as a sanitation worker, and his wife worked in a factory until each sustained injuries and became disabled, the son said.
In 1984, the family moved to Stockton. Sum and his wife had more children, and later, grandchildren.
The couple were a study in contrasts, according to their children. "He's the quiet one," Thoeun said of his father. "He really didn't talk unless it was important."
His sister said their mother "talks a little bit loud, but she's really funny and loving."
When asked what she would do when she got to see her mother, Monyan said she wouldn't be able to hug Sokpov Van, because of her injuries, but would tell her mother that she loved her.
"And I wish I could tell that to my dad," Monyan said, her voice catching.
Thoeun Van said he had planned to take his parents back to Cambodia next year for the first time since they left. His dad still had family there.
Instead, Thoeun will focus on what his father would want the son to do in his absence.
"To take care of everybody," he said.
Monday, September 29, 2008
By Melissa Nix - mnix@sacbee.com
Sacramento Bee (California, USA)
A man who managed to escape Cambodia's killing fields, bringing his young family to the United States for a new life, was killed early Sunday by a motorist who authorities said was heading the wrong way on Interstate 5.
Yoeun Sum, 56, of Stockton, was driving his wife, son, daughter-in-law and granddaughter home from a family wedding in Willits when a BMW sedan hit his Toyota Camry head-on, the California Highway Patrol said Sunday.
Donald Vanness, 57, of Woodbridge, was driving the BMW north in the southbound lanes of I-5 and also died in the collision at Hood Franklin Road at 2:49 a.m.
Sum had escaped Cambodia nearly 30 years ago, fleeing with his wife and two young sons to avoid the genocide that took the lives of 1.7 million people.
But Sunday, Sum couldn't avoid the BMW hurtling at his family. His daughter and grandson, traveling in a car ahead of his, had a narrow escape when her husband swerved at the last moment.
"I saw a car come out of nowhere, and my husband barely dodged it," said Monyan Van, 22. "It then hit the other car," carrying her parents.
Van and other family members sat in an intensive-care waiting room while their mother, Sokpov Van, 55, was in surgery at Mercy San Juan Medical Center off Coyle Avenue in Carmichael.
She had a concussion, a broken rib and a broken leg, and is listed in serious condition. She didn't know that her husband had died in the crash, according to their son, Thoeun Van, 26, of Stockton.
Sum's Camry burned after the crash. The fire was put out, and the victims were removed from the vehicle by firefighters from the Cosumnes Community Services District Fire Department.
Sum died at the crash scene, officials said. Four other family members in the car were taken to different hospitals.
Thoeun Van said Sunday that his sister's 5-month-old daughter, Tyana Kylie Youen-Chanhkhiao, his brother, Chandra Van, 21, and his sister-in-law Chao Yang, 20, had been transported to UC Davis Medical Center.
The infant was released from the hospital late Sunday morning. Chao Yang remained on life support, while her husband Chandra Van was in stable condition, he said.
Vanness was pronounced dead at UC Davis Medical Center.
Officer Michael Bradley, a spokesman, said the CHP has launched a DUI investigation.
Officials said an off-duty police officer saw the BMW going north in the southbound lanes moments before the crash, and he tried to warn motorists by flashing his lights.
He also assisted victims, along with the Fire Department, which sent six ambulances and five engines. Firefighters had to pry open both vehicles to get the victims out, said fire spokesman Steve Capps.
Thoeun Van said his parents escaped from Cambodia to Thailand with him and his brother Sam, now 28.
"They tried to kill my mom," he said, referring to Khmer Rouge revolutionaries.
But in what he described as a close call, his mother fainted. When the Khmer Rouge left her for dead, the family made its escape.
All of their mother's relatives were killed, said Monyan Van, Thoeun's sister.
From Thailand, the family made its way to Vietnam, where Sum worked as a refugee camp leader, according to a document his son showed Sunday.
The family eventually settled in Alabama. Sum worked as a sanitation worker, and his wife worked in a factory until each sustained injuries and became disabled, the son said.
In 1984, the family moved to Stockton. Sum and his wife had more children, and later, grandchildren.
The couple were a study in contrasts, according to their children. "He's the quiet one," Thoeun said of his father. "He really didn't talk unless it was important."
His sister said their mother "talks a little bit loud, but she's really funny and loving."
When asked what she would do when she got to see her mother, Monyan said she wouldn't be able to hug Sokpov Van, because of her injuries, but would tell her mother that she loved her.
"And I wish I could tell that to my dad," Monyan said, her voice catching.
Thoeun Van said he had planned to take his parents back to Cambodia next year for the first time since they left. His dad still had family there.
Instead, Thoeun will focus on what his father would want the son to do in his absence.
"To take care of everybody," he said.
24 comments:
Yep, that's what will happened to you when you accused innocent people in your home land of doing bad deeds.
I hope you'll enjoyed your trip to hell, Ah Khmer-Oversea!
Very sad!
I am so sorry about that.
This is one of the reasons that I would never take the far right lane when driving on the freeway at night. It is very common for people to take the wrong entrance at night!
To 12:22AM
You mother fucker didn't know that Cambodia has the highest traffic fatality than any country in the world! Don't worry Khmer oversea and they will enjoy their life the way they always wanted but for you and your family and you must live and die in ghetto Cambodia!
Bullshit, we have accidents because we are not familiar with the new roads that we snapped up, but all that will changed in no time. On the other hand, you morons (oversea) have no excuses whatsoever. You died because you are pure evil from hell, and hell is where you belong for eternity.
So sorry to hear this news. It was a tragic event.
I myself escaped the Khmer Rouge situation but I can't escape death. Death by a disease, old age,accident and/or natural disarter are always follow me wherever, I go. It may be sooner or later.
WHO CAN ESCAPE DEATH, PLEASE TELL ME I want to learn from him/her?
True that no one can't escape those types of death, but you can certainly escape other types of premature dead like Evilism.
So sad to hear from the first comment "Ah Khmer-Oversea! 12:22 AM" Now we all see why there are Hun Sen supporters. Forgive them for they know less of what Hun Sen's gov't is doing. I feel pity for this person.
The traffic accident issue is way different from “Death by a disease, old age, accident and/or natural disaster".
For one thing when people have traffic accident and the parties involved didn't mean it! It is something happens without planning ahead of time and nobody is planning or intend to have an accident! So who fault is it? And what about God in dealing with two people who died in traffic accident that have no intention of killing one another? I don't think God has any saying in it because it is happened by accident!
There are those people who said that only God has the right to take away life from people but is this how God take away life from people in a gruesome car accident?
To 12:41AM
Just shut the fuck up bitch! God will send you to hell for falsely accusing people of evil! I hope you die in the ghetto of Cambodia! And I doubt very much that you are living in Cambodia but if you do live in Cambodia and God have condemned you already to live in the miserable country on Earth! It is so sad to learn that dirt poor people living in Cambodia are resorted to eating rat and dog meat just to keep up with inflation! I don't need to say more!
I guess most Khmer are easily brainwashed. Give them a bag of MSG or a sarong, they will vote for you.
Yeah the guy who gave the first comment should be more showing sympathy or condolence to this person or his family. Matter of fact instead of showing pity he is cursing all of the Khmer living abroad. How come? For what I've understood, Khmer in srok Khmer is very careless on those seeking sympathy. I have followed some of the research about Khmer in srok Khmer that almost of Khmer citizen is 99% Buddish but when thing happened like this incident most of them is not showing any mercy at all. Why bother follow Buddha's practices or preaches?
And please don't blame the entire Khmer abroad. Accidents can happen any where and regardless of what this guy to go around an alterative roads. If it happens it will happens no matter where you planning to go.
Khmer PP,
Khmer PP,
Sometime you don't have to give them anything just lecture them a little bit on hatred and then they went ahead and eliminate their parents,sibling and everything else for you.
Nonsense, how can someone falsely accuse evil like you as evil, 1:51? The truth is the truth. You fools are not people, but 100% evil from hell, and hell you will go back soon.
Let this be an example for all Ah Evil Khmer-Oversea.
What ta fuck wrong with all ya khmer oversea-khmer krom khmer kondal what tafuck ya problem samaki ok OMG.
12:22AM
you're one sick 2 legged animal. I sincerely hope that you'll die in the same manner. you animal will crash and burn in your automobile soon. die you hell creature, die!!
The guy/gal on the first comment need to see a psychologist really bad.
What is in your mind, what made you mad at Khmer Oversea, Khmer Krom, or all part of khmer unlike you? You must be brain wash by Youn or Siam.
I drove many times along I-5 but not late at night. I feel very sad for the family. I would like to send my sympathy and pray for you and the family.
Let me tell you something those khmer who refuse the truth... The truth is without khmer resistance along the boarder to fight back the Youn aggressor, you are still under the control of Youn, and you won't have what you have now. We are all fighting for the survial of khmer, not just Hun Sen!!!
to the first poster (12:22AM) you are a pure imbecile!
Hmmm ... sounds like 8:57 and 7:51 can't hack the truth, hahaha ....
Well! It is your mother who hack the truth and she is passing it on to you!
Hell is where Ah Khmer-Oversea came from, and Hell is where they will return soon, as simple as that.
6:47 PM, how about those crooks who sent their kids overseas to study and deposited ill-gotten money in overseas banks? Will they also go to hell?
You got to be either a natural-born imbecile, or a reformed overseas returnee who got clubbed in the head by CPP security force. Only a low life, no-good like you who voluntarily lives life in hell no matter where or when you are at. I don't think those rich cats in Cambodia condemn their kids and relatives who live overseas to go to hell.
To 9:18PM
Right on!
The old has said if the dog ,the lice and the leech biting us please forgive it because we are not that type of the sick insects nor animal with two legged as said.
khmer oversea.
Sad to see us as a community turn on one another! That evil guy obviously have issues! He is actually Hun xen's son don't mind him he is always evil. We need to send our condolences to the family. To the other guy saying Cambodia is hell needs to shut up to. It's your own country how can you say such bad things. I'm proud of who I am and where I'm from! Cambodia is making a lot of progress it has a long way to go, but one day it will be a place of peace and stability. We eat dogs and rats to survive, not cause we want to! Would you do it to survive? So can't we all just get along! Back to the main topic, hope the family find a sense of peace knowing that their beloved father is in a better place! (wheather in Cambodia or US)
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