Wednesday, November 12, 2008

CAMBODIA: "Sometimes I get regular women, sometimes I hire lady-boys"

Male commercial sex worker in Phnom Penh (Photo: David Swanson/IRIN)

PHNOM PENH, 11 November 2008 (PlusNews) - At the end of each day, Lux, a construction worker in the Cambodian capital, Phnom Penh, goes home for supper with his wife and young children. At the weekend he leads a different life, cruising the city's most notorious male brothels, where he regularly has group sex with men while watching pornographic videos.

"I think it's pretty common. A lot of men I know do this in secret without their wives knowing," he told IRIN/PlusNews. When asked about using condoms during sex, he said, "Sometimes, but never with my wife."

After police cracked down on the brothels he visited, Lux turned to the streets, taking nightly strolls through Hun Sen Park, where he pays transsexuals for sex at least once a month.

"Sometimes I get regular women, and sometimes I hire lady-boys," he said. He has never been tested for HIV and does not think it an issue, given Cambodia's falling HIV rate.

HIV prevalence dropped to just 0.9 percent in 2006 from 3.7 percent in 1997. But among men who have sex with men (MSMs), the rate remained an uncomfortably high 5.1 percent nationally, and 8.7 percent in Phnom Penh in 2006, the most recent year for which UNAIDS data is available.

Advocacy groups warn that the lack of outreach programmes to educate MSM about HIV risks could undo the progress that Cambodia as a whole has achieved.

"There are underestimated contributions of MSM to the overall environment of HIV," Tony Lisle, UNAIDS Cambodia country coordinator, told IRIN/PlusNews. "The HIV epidemic has been largely ignored among MSM."

Cambodian MSM see themselves as belonging to two distinct groups, which complicates outreach efforts. They define themselves as either "short-haired" - masculine-acting MSM who tend to have sex with each other - or "long-haired", transgender MSM, whose sexual partners can be from either group.

Half of long-haired MSM and 38 percent of short-haired MSM reported having unprotected sex in the past month, according to a UNAIDS survey in 2006. "We need to achieve an 80 percent condom-use rate to have an impact," Lisle noted.

Hidden MSMs

Long-haired MSMs had double the number of sexual partners as short-haired men (5.7 male partners in a month compared to 2.9 partners for short-haired MSM), and were far more likely to have sold sex (60 percent to 36 percent of short-haired men).

"These hidden MSM are difficult to reach because they're not self-identifying," Lisle said. "Many also engage in unsafe behaviours, like injecting drugs."

Lux does not consider himself homosexual, or at a heightened risk of HIV. "I'm not a gay person. I just do this for pleasure, like a lot of men," he told IRIN/PlusNews. "From the TV programmes I've seen that are run by NGOs, I think gay people spread AIDS, but not people who just do this on the side."

Makara, a male sex worker, is aware of the HIV risk and wears a condom, but does not panic if his condom breaks. "If it breaks for a second, that's fine," he said. "I just get a new one. I don't worry about HIV for that short amount of time it breaks."

Over a three-month period in 2006, according to UNAIDS, 20 percent of long-haired MSM who engaged in risky behaviour reported condom breakage, but nearly half said they had obtained their most recent condom from an NGO, showing that targeted prevention efforts have been making headway.

"If NGOs can get more prevention services to this vulnerable group, we could maintain the great progress we've seen for the last five years," Lisle said.

22 comments:

Anonymous said...

This is disgusting. Then they brings aids/HIV and other diseases to their wives and innocent children. Someone should cut their d... off.

Anonymous said...

Fuking fags. They should be eliminated. Yes it is disgusting.

Anonymous said...

So, the old guys who de-flower under-age girls' virginity get a lighter sentence than those who have consensual sex with either gender?

Come on guys, come out of the closet! Don't bark with barbaric language from a closed door. Don't tell me you're perfect in all your entire life. For all I know, you may engage in a similar sexual activity like this fellow in the photo.

Human genes and DNAs are very complex, and some of them may attribute to certain sexual orientation in individual persons. Such things are common throughout the world. If you wanted to commit a barbaric act, as suggested earlier, against another human-being because of that, what would that make you? Animals? Since you don't take time to think long and hard like a human-being, I think you are!

Condom is all you need to keep safe in a consensual sex. How hard can that be?

Anonymous said...

Lux, you should test your wife and your kid for HIV, in case they pass the test, then trust in the test will be reestablish.

By the way you are spreading HIV right now, I guess you don't really care.

Anonymous said...

I think we should hang all the fags.

Anonymous said...

This is very dangerous for the kids. His wife should kick him off. Why should a human treat other people in that way? Khmer women should be more stronger.

Anonymous said...

10:06AM

You're sounding educated, but you must be a fool person and one of the fake guy or so called Gay man. I personally hate a gay men. If I have power like Hun Sen or Ah Kwak, I will put all of them in jail for many years. These people are very sick and brainless. They need to be rounded up and send them to a small island to live and die there. Let them have intercourse one another and die without mercy.

God take them all alive like Ah Hok Lundy.

Stupid and moreon gay people. I don't pray for these kind of people.

Anonymous said...

You're cheap worst than a dog..

Anonymous said...

wow, those who are homophobic are so closed minded. I personally don't think that it is a big issue for two men having sex as long as they practice safe sex. People should more open minded. It is their choice to lead their lifestyles; it is none of our business. Gay people are just like you and I; they are human beings. You, gay-haters, have no rights to judge people's homosexuality.

Anonymous said...

The problem is that Lux is spreading HIV to other people.

Anonymous said...

I think we should hang all the fags.

Anonymous said...

Yes Lux, you are spreading HIV to other people and your family. This is a crime equivalent to murder or mansluaghter. You should start practice safe sex. He will be very sorry when his children diagnose with HIV.

Anonymous said...

The guy in the photo looks like typical Ah Pleu-Oversea.

Anonymous said...

I'm reading KI-Media everyday and I've found out that you guys out there who have internet access and can read English are using so many bad words. Normally, I consider all you guys to be educated enough to read English. But, you all have so much hatred in your heart. Hatred blinds your eyes. So, please calm down and use your rational with better words and free yourself from all the hatred.

Anonymous said...

what a sick bastard motherfucker. this gay people should go to hell with ah hok lundy. Im so sick to see this kind of news. fuck all the gay people.

Anonymous said...

Fuck you 2:24pm go to hell with ah hok.

Anonymous said...

Why this guy betray his wife's heart?

If he is chose or committed his life to one love he shouldn't have done something beside her. What if she doing the same to him? How does he feels?

This is the spread of HIV in Khmer's society because of this guy giving false of doesn't care what HIV is.

Khmer men/women please take this seriously.

Don't let this 3-4 minutes pleasure haunt you in the long run.

Bros Khmer,

Anonymous said...

Gay or straight is not a choice rather a genetic make up; however, moral is a choice due to your up bringing and pass experienced. If only people know the golden rule "do on to other as you want to be done on to you" this world would be a better place.

Anonymous said...

It is sad to see young straight people learning to have sex with both sexes. I think sexuality is natural and it also can be a learned experience too during growing up in the anarchic world of phonography under the HUN SEN Cambodia.

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