Sunday, February 14th, 2010By Sopheap Chak
Global Voice Online
Valentine's Day was first celebrated in Cambodia in 2000. It is now a popular event in the country, especially among the youth. The government, with the help of some bloggers, use this occasion to promote sexual health and reproductive health rights among the younger generation
Celebrating Valentine's Day is relatively a recent phenomenon in Cambodia. It was only in the past decade when Valentine's Day was celebrated in the country. Though Valentine's Day has gained much popularity among the younger generation, its definition and practice remain controversial. They spark an alarming attention especially on the wrong practice associated with this global occasion.
Many writers regret that the meaning of Valentine's Day has been misinterpreted. Chhay Sophal, in his article on ” ប្រយ័ត្នទិវា វ៉ាឡិនថាញដេ ក្លាយជាទិវាស្នេហ៍កម្មជាទិវានៃក្តីស្រឡាញ់” [Be Warned of Valentine's Day to Become a Regrettable Eve], emphasized that the youth have confusingly transformed the meaning of Valentine's day:
These observations have been shared by Vutha Morn who questioned the link of culture identity and cultural preservation while Sidaroth Kong wrote in her Facebook status that “Valentine's Day and Controversy Khmer Culture: Is sleeping with your partner the only way to show that you love him?”
According the a cross-sectional research on “Love and Sexual Relationship: Experiences and Plans of Middle Class Young People Regarding the Upcoming Valentine's Day In Phnom Penh in 2009″ done by Soprach Tong, who surveyed 458 youths aging from 15 to 24, majority of them do not understand the background of Valentine’s Day. Asked if the middle class young people in Phnom Penh plan to be sexually active on the upcoming Valentine’s Day, Soprach found that:
From this result, the author urged for attention on sexual consent, sexual reproductive health and HIV/AIDS programs which target young people in the urban areas of Cambodia.
Given these alarming facts and concerns, the Cambodian Ministry of Women's Affairs, initiated five-minute spots educating the teenagers about the “meaning of the Valentine's day” in order that the young will be encouraged to expresses their love to family first, followed by teachers and then friends. This educational spot which aims to warn Cambodian teenagers against engaging in promiscuous sex has been welcomed by majority of students, teachers, and bloggers.
Celebrating Valentine's Day is relatively a recent phenomenon in Cambodia. It was only in the past decade when Valentine's Day was celebrated in the country. Though Valentine's Day has gained much popularity among the younger generation, its definition and practice remain controversial. They spark an alarming attention especially on the wrong practice associated with this global occasion.
Many writers regret that the meaning of Valentine's Day has been misinterpreted. Chhay Sophal, in his article on ” ប្រយ័ត្នទិវា វ៉ាឡិនថាញដេ ក្លាយជាទិវាស្នេហ៍កម្មជាទិវានៃក្តីស្រឡាញ់” [Be Warned of Valentine's Day to Become a Regrettable Eve], emphasized that the youth have confusingly transformed the meaning of Valentine's day:
ដោយឡែកនៅកម្ពុជា វប្បធម៌នេះក៏មានប្រជាប្រិយផងដែរចាប់តាំងពីឆ្នាំ ២០០០ មកពិសេសក្នុងចំណោមយុវវ័យ។ អ្វីដែលគួរឲ្យកត់សំគាល់ គឺពួកយុវវ័យ មួយចំនួនបានយកអត្ថន័យនៃទិវានេះទៅជាទិវាមួយសម្រាប់គូស្នេហ៍ទៅវិញ ដោយបកប្រែពាក្យ វ៉ាឡិនថាញ ដេ (valentine day) ថាជាទិវាសង្សារទៅវិញ ដែលធ្វើឲ្យពួកយុវវ័យខ្មែរយល់ខុសវក់នឹងសង្សារ មិនបានគិតពីមិត្តភក្កិដទៃ ពិសេសឪពុកម្តាយបងប្អូនរបស់ខ្លួន។Sophal also highlighted the negative impact resulting from the misinterpretation of Valentine's Day. This includes sexual misconduct among young lovers, which is a violation of Cambodian culture, especially for unmarried couples. Another impact is the possible harm on the reproductive health of young women.
Valentine's Day has become popular among young generations in Cambodia since 2000. Strikingly, some young people have wrongly defined this Valentine's Day as the “Eve for Lovers” instead of “Eve for Love” with the latter referring to love for parents, relatives and friends in general.
ជាការពិត យើងមិនទោមនស្សនឹងក្តីស្រឡាញ់របស់យុវវ័យនោះទេ ប៉ុន្តែអ្វីដែលយើងព្រួយបារម្ភនោះគឺស្រ្តីវ័យក្មេងអាចបាត់បង់កិត្តិយស អាសោចកេរ្តិ៍ដោយតែបាត់បង់ភាពបរិសុទ្ធ។ ជាងនេះទៅទៀត ពួកគេអាចប្រឈមនឹងការមានផ្ទៃពោះដោយចៃដន្យ ប្រសិនបើការរួមភេទជាមួយបុរសជាសង្សារនោះមិនបានប្រើប្រាស់ស្រោមអនាម័យឲ្យបានត្រឹមត្រូវ ហើយការមានផ្ទៃពោះនេះគឺឈានទៅធ្វើការរំលូតកូន ដែលប្រការនេះពិតជាធ្វើឲ្យស្រ្តីវ័យក្មេងប្រឈមនឹងបញ្ហាសុខភាពបន្តពូជទៅពេលអនាគត។Sophal further emphasized that young women are more prone to HIV/AIDS if their sexual partners do not use condoms. They can also be victimized by pornography scandals that may jeopardize their future and the reputation of their family. Thus Sophal warns young women to be careful not to fall into the love trap during this Valentine's Day. He advised that the youth will be in a better position to celebrate this occasion with their beloved parents, relatives or friends in a proper manner.
Though we do not mind about the youth's love affairs, we are much concerned about young women whose dignity will be damaged given the fact of their lost virginity. Even worse is that they may be pregnant and it may lead to abortion. This will be harmful to women reproductive health.
These observations have been shared by Vutha Morn who questioned the link of culture identity and cultural preservation while Sidaroth Kong wrote in her Facebook status that “Valentine's Day and Controversy Khmer Culture: Is sleeping with your partner the only way to show that you love him?”
According the a cross-sectional research on “Love and Sexual Relationship: Experiences and Plans of Middle Class Young People Regarding the Upcoming Valentine's Day In Phnom Penh in 2009″ done by Soprach Tong, who surveyed 458 youths aging from 15 to 24, majority of them do not understand the background of Valentine’s Day. Asked if the middle class young people in Phnom Penh plan to be sexually active on the upcoming Valentine’s Day, Soprach found that:
“In the results, 12.4 percent of all respondents answered that they expect to be able to have sex on the upcoming Valentine's Day, and more than 14.3 percent of young people in a couple answered that they expect to be able to have sex with their sweethearts on that day too, and a few couples plan not to use a condom. Meanwhile, more than a third (39.5%) of the young people in a couple surveyed (n=38) stated that it will be the first time for them to have sexual intercourse. And the other two thirds (66.6%) of young males in couple (n=25) will pressure or force their girlfriend on having sex using many devices, if they do not agree. And at least seven percent of young males who answered that they expect to be able to have sex are open to being involved in Bauk [Gang rape, a slang term occurs after one (or two) youth(s) negotiate a price with a sex worker, or solicit a woman’s affection and arrange a proposed destination for sexual intercourse. Then the woman is taken to a hotel or guest-house, where numerous other young men are waiting, or will soon arrive] on the upcoming Valentine’s Day”
From this result, the author urged for attention on sexual consent, sexual reproductive health and HIV/AIDS programs which target young people in the urban areas of Cambodia.
Given these alarming facts and concerns, the Cambodian Ministry of Women's Affairs, initiated five-minute spots educating the teenagers about the “meaning of the Valentine's day” in order that the young will be encouraged to expresses their love to family first, followed by teachers and then friends. This educational spot which aims to warn Cambodian teenagers against engaging in promiscuous sex has been welcomed by majority of students, teachers, and bloggers.
7 comments:
It is a lady who crazy in this right? Why you took this idea to write on this?
We don't want to all youth under 18 years old to be crazy in this day.
You real never know about this problem on 14th under 18year old go to hotel or grand house?
Cambodian don’t have this culture like this before but it seem 2000 happen to our Cambodia which made Cambodia people low education and follow this custom without think.
Where is Khmer custom in presently which make youth to follow rule?
You have more idea should give a good advice to youths on this web: or make something that batter than now nowadays.
Your idea is seen not interested on it, Lady
If you Khmer? Do not say about this lady.
Under 18 year old on14th suffer on this day that lost their body by boyfriend.
It is not Khmer culture.
If you Khmer? Do not say about this lady.
Under 18 year old on14th suffer on this day that lost their body by boyfriend.
It is not Khmer culture.
11:01 AM, your broken english looks annoying. Go back & lean some more english for children at Newton Thilay before posting your childish comment.
11;45,
Give him/her a break!
English is not a first/native language for everyone. Especially if this person is from Cambodia, you have to give them credit for trying!
Freedom of expression buddy : )
A LOB, if might be ur mother wirte on it.
It's very alarming to see Mr. Sophal used this tactic to fool the readers. Everybody knows that he could care less when it comes to educating the youths about HIV or any other deadly diseases. These young people in my opinion are well aware of the HIV and Aid. To encourage them to use condoms during Valentine's Day, to me was absurd! Again, why he did he use Valentine's Day to advertise this? If he really wanted to help young Cambodian people to be educated in HIV/Aid, he should have done it in any other days. Go to urban areas and literally preach to them the importance of HIV/Aid. As a Cambodian woman, I was disappointed to see young people celebrated Valentine's Day, knowing that VD is not even our traditional custom.
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