Source: Deutsche Welle
Monks in orange robes are reciting prayers. A group of men and women is sitting in front of them. Their heads are bowed and some are crying. They are in a temple in the Killing Fields, not far from the Cambodian capital of Phnom Penh.
17,000 were killed in this place alone under the Khmer Rouge regime that lasted from 1975 to 1979. Those praying survived. They are taking part in a therapy course that is run by the Transcultural Psycho-Social Organization Cambodia (TPO).
“It felt like I was in hell”
One of the participants, Sam Rithy, was arrested and tortured in prison. The Khmer Rouge, which wanted to establish a classless society, thought that he needed to be rid of his “bourgeois side” since he lived in the city.
“They hit me with a weapon until I was unconscious. They killed innocent children in jail and let children starve to death. It felt like I was in hell. I never thought I would survive,” he recalls.
The method that the TPO uses – Testimonial Therapy – was developed in Chile after the dictatorship fell. Participants work through their experiences of torture, war and human rights abuses, with qualified therapists.
Sleep problems and depression
Sam Rithy has problems sleeping and Im Sam At is depressed. The two are sitting in a cafe in Phnom Penh, speaking about their experiences. Im Sam At is massaging her forehead:
“I think about the past too much,” she says. “My husband was executed. I was a widow at 22. I lost my children and my mother. I feel very very lonely.”
It is part of the therapy to write down memories and try to piece fragments together. Participants then go back to the Killing Fields together but only after they have been “debriefed”, explains Sarat Youn, one of the TPO’s therapists.
“We tell them that this place is not a good place to visit and will remind them of really bad past experiences. We tell them that if they need to cry, they should. They should not keep it in but should release their pain.”
Religious ceremony helps release pain and suffering
In the final ceremony, the therapists read out the stories of each person. Sam Rithy seems calm and composed as Sarat Youn reads his story. He nods over and over again.
Sam Rithy then gives the document to the head monk, who blesses it. The monk then wraps a red band around Sam Rithy’s wrist.
Sarat Youn explains that the religious ceremony can help victims release their pain and find peace. The monks relieve the victims of suffering and memories that they have kept deep within themselves for years by taking the documents and blessing them.
Those who have gone through the therapy say that they feel more hope and energy afterwards.
17,000 were killed in this place alone under the Khmer Rouge regime that lasted from 1975 to 1979. Those praying survived. They are taking part in a therapy course that is run by the Transcultural Psycho-Social Organization Cambodia (TPO).
“It felt like I was in hell”
One of the participants, Sam Rithy, was arrested and tortured in prison. The Khmer Rouge, which wanted to establish a classless society, thought that he needed to be rid of his “bourgeois side” since he lived in the city.
“They hit me with a weapon until I was unconscious. They killed innocent children in jail and let children starve to death. It felt like I was in hell. I never thought I would survive,” he recalls.
The method that the TPO uses – Testimonial Therapy – was developed in Chile after the dictatorship fell. Participants work through their experiences of torture, war and human rights abuses, with qualified therapists.
Sleep problems and depression
Sam Rithy has problems sleeping and Im Sam At is depressed. The two are sitting in a cafe in Phnom Penh, speaking about their experiences. Im Sam At is massaging her forehead:
“I think about the past too much,” she says. “My husband was executed. I was a widow at 22. I lost my children and my mother. I feel very very lonely.”
It is part of the therapy to write down memories and try to piece fragments together. Participants then go back to the Killing Fields together but only after they have been “debriefed”, explains Sarat Youn, one of the TPO’s therapists.
“We tell them that this place is not a good place to visit and will remind them of really bad past experiences. We tell them that if they need to cry, they should. They should not keep it in but should release their pain.”
Religious ceremony helps release pain and suffering
In the final ceremony, the therapists read out the stories of each person. Sam Rithy seems calm and composed as Sarat Youn reads his story. He nods over and over again.
Sam Rithy then gives the document to the head monk, who blesses it. The monk then wraps a red band around Sam Rithy’s wrist.
Sarat Youn explains that the religious ceremony can help victims release their pain and find peace. The monks relieve the victims of suffering and memories that they have kept deep within themselves for years by taking the documents and blessing them.
Those who have gone through the therapy say that they feel more hope and energy afterwards.
2 comments:
I wish i could help them too because it is part of my job as well. Mainly helping them by listening to them and by allowing them to express about their experiences, in doing so is to get them out of their chest and to feel better about themselves. In addition by giving them some skills to move on, e.g. CBT (cognitive behaviour therapy (Piage), REBT (Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy) (Albert Ellis) BM (behaveiour modification), Psycho-social develoopment (Erik Erikson), psycho-dynamic- about the up bring of a child development which could affect the development of adulthood (Fraudian) Self-Esteem, Self-Actualization, (Maslow law of needs) etc. An eclectic approaches of counseling must be used to helping people as individual has different situation, it is not like a one side fit all thing. Therefore counselor must able to identify which one is appropriate to use for that particular person. Aust
Thanks for your thoughtful recommendation. However, most Cambodian counselors do not know the technique you described, they only use whatever technique they have learnt.
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