Friday, May 21, 2010

I am flabbergasted and dumbfounded

Dear KI-Media Readers,

I am flabbergasted and dumbfounded to read the negative comments posted against Laura Mam. My heart sank even further when people try to delve into her personal life even though they do not even know anything about it. I just simply don’t understand!

As for me, I am very proud and grateful to see this young lady trying to bring back a glimpse of Khmer oldies songs. For sure, she does not speak with a clear Khmer accent, but the question is: can anybody point out any sons and daughters of Cambodian parents who are born and bred overseas who can speak clearly and fluently Khmer? Now, would we rather see this young lady turning away from her Khmer roots altogether or can we accept her as she is, i.e. trying very hard to show us what sons and daughters of Cambodian parents can achieve? Personally, I have no qualms in accepting her at face value, and, as I said earlier, I am very grateful and proud of her. Can you say the same?

For those who did not listen to her interview on NPR, I urge you to listen to what Laura said. She clearly indicated that the song “Sva Roam Monkiss” is not hers, but her rendition of a song that her aunt loves.

Please help encourage young and budding Khmer talents, they are our future.

My message to Laura: Go Khmer Girl! Proudly, show them all that you can do!

Sincerely,

Heng Soy

58 comments:

Anonymous said...

If she was ugly the writer wouldn't have given her any publicity.

Anonymous said...

There will always be hatters and jealous people out there! Success will always bring someone else pain! Remember that. Do what you love. Good work Laura Mam!

P.S. I thought Dengue Fever was going to be a hit too but it was a one hit wonder. They got weird with their music. Too Druggie?

Anonymous said...

Laura, Congrate! Bravo..No worries...you must be proud of your self. Geee you are hot..

Anonymous said...

Just be true to yourself and race and don't influence all Khmer sisters and daughters to have white husbands and boyfriends.

Anonymous said...

the author of this publication is Heng Soy what kind of name is that??? Lucky/Un-lucky. what one is it man? dang!! your parent must be confussed.

Anonymous said...

Good to see that Khmer young generation interested in speaking and sing Khmer songs. Here is another girl who is the leader of Cambodian Awareness Organization. Even she is born in the US, she can speak and sing in Khmer very clearly too. Watch the video. Click on this link:
http://www.cambodianforum.org/phpbbforum/viewtopic.php?f=27&t=590

Anonymous said...

SHE CAN SING SO DOUBT, BUT SHE SOUND LIKE A 5 YEARS OLD. IF SHE ONLY SING IN COMPLETE ENGLISH IT WOULD SOUND ALRIGHT, BUT WHEN SHE SING KHMER IS SOUND VERY SHALLOW.

Anonymous said...

LOL, Heng Soy said "I am flabbergasted and dumbfounded" yeah.. look at your name "Heng SOY" are you between Lucky & Unlucky? You should call call yourself "Misfortune" LOL

Anonymous said...

Go Laura Go!
I supported you 100% and proud of you. There are not so many young people care much about their homeland, tradition, or ancestor.
Best wish and much luck to you, Laura.

by: Allen, Cambodian-American from California

Anonymous said...

You will always get haters every where you go. If you can do better than show us. And if you don't like it don't listen to it, its that simple. Keep your negative comments to yourself. It's helping us khmer as a community. Having lived in the US for so long my khmer faded away. It is difficult for us to communicate in khmer in more complicated subjects because we were never taught these terms at home. Having parents that barely have a high school education can make it hard as well. Some of us are afraid to speak in our native tongue because our own people make fun of us for not speaking proper khmer. So please, stop the hate and show your support for this woman.

Anonymous said...

Laura is the the inspiration for those foreign born Cambodian to learn their root and be proud of who they are. For her to imerse herself in her parents'culture in a foreign land (not foreign to her if she was born in the US) shows that she has strong self-confidence, something that is a rarity among us.

Anonymous said...

I'll support her, she sound like a 5 years old voice. Learning to speak LOL

Anonymous said...

dont mind them, they are crazy !!!!!! the fucking crazy and also their relative, the fucking crazy people who ignorance

Anonymous said...

U have ur opin, I have mine.

Anonymous said...

come on it's the truth. it is disturbing to hear a white washed Cambodian girl trying to speak or sing in Khmer!! and these are the kind of white washed girls who are ignorant towards FOBs immigrants from Cambodia.

Anonymous said...

to mee someh 6;22 and 7:20 you have nothing to do beside collecting welfare and bullshitting around? I terribly shame of you why don't you go to fuck somewhere else? Laura I proud of you that you preserve and keep your identity very well,very seldom to see the girl with the talent like you,GO GIRL I love your talent keep it up!

Anonymous said...

Laura Mam has insulted the spirit of truth Khmer Classic songs. She turned this Monkey songs to some bullshit with the stupid gangsters dannce with gangter feet and hand gesture. What have Khmer become. 1st Khmer killing Khmer. Then Youn took over Khmer land and Now Khmer-American has destroy Khmer Music culture???? I"m SAD!! what else is left for Khmer.

Anonymous said...

8;06am there is the big confused from your opinion okay, don't you know the word preserve,modify and modernize it?
You sound like samakmit khmer krohom mith kmao krangeit western haters and end up with using computer ,why don't you just go back to your rice field that you are belong? And leave Laura alone?
Your old stinky head no use because of your brain out of date.
Nothing are lost but more in the modern way

Anonymous said...

Modern my ass. No body can unserstand these type of stupid monkey song. only people like you. might as well why don't she sing that Monkey song while being naked, that will be modern alright!

If she wanted Moden, then invent her own song and not copy or tarnished our classic Khmer songs. You people are a wast in Khmer society. lucky that you are in the states.

Anonymous said...

Hi,

I am Khmer in Phnom Penh and a member of the CPP.

I love Laura's songs and singing. I listen very selectively to musics, only Meng Keo Pich Chenda, Sakun Nisa.

Lura Mam will have a great future in the US or elsewhere. Please support her. Leave her private life to her. All of you raised in a free country should know that better than us living in Cambodia

I wish Laura Mam a bright future

Anonymous said...

Laura Mam is one of the most intelligent, well raised and worldly Khmer female that exist in today's world! I am so proud of her and all of her accomplishments! Haters will try to tear everyone they come across down, because that is how pathetic their own life is, such a tragedy!
Keep rocking Laura!

Anonymous said...

What monkey see, monkey will do. Sva Roam Monkiss, Sva hudd kdut klona-eang. lol

Anonymous said...

8:45 mee khmer krahom killer
Don't you know the words modify ,preserving upgrade ? Look at your neighbors Thai one song there they produce over and over ten to fifteen stars sing the same after generation they have no narrow minded and shortsighted like you,if you don't want to stay out of your pond just leave every bodies alone.Cambodian become to shrinkage nation because people like you are just waste like the sewage water,oh by the way in my town they reproduce the sewage water to clean water and sold to consumers as regular water price.
GO LAURA GO don't take that jealousy crap idea they can,t be be like you they wanted to be like you so they just want to ruin your reputation.

Anonymous said...

Laura Mam has insulted the spirit of truth Khmer Classic songs. She turned this Monkey songs to some bullshit with the stupid gangsters dannce with gangter feet and hand gesture. What have Khmer become. 1st Khmer killing Khmer. Then Youn took over Khmer land and Now Khmer-American has destroy Khmer Music culture???? I"m SAD!! what else is left for Khmer.

this aren't no upgrade sucker! this is more of a learning baby step stage. She need to learn to speak Khmer first. Haha!! Maybe you sucker can teach her.

Anonymous said...

come on it's the truth. it is disturbing to hear a white washed Cambodian girl trying to speak or sing in Khmer!! and these are the kind of white washed girls who are ignorant towards FOBs immigrants from Cambodia. stop trying to dress like white trash punks beating the bucket drims on broadway.

Anonymous said...

8:45
Don't blame her music for your stupidity. Perhaps, you're too white washed to comprehend Khmer language?
Disregard the moron who always tried to keep my people down.
After having listened to her song, many will agree with me that she is fluent in Khmer without any accent...whatsoever.

Khmer, WA

Anonymous said...

Laura Prahok, Laura Mam, Laura Pa-ork. It all smells bad, yet it taste good but will kill your vocals before singing.

Anonymous said...

The bleaching of the skin in Cambodia is bun rany and her youn women associate's campaign to manipulate and make true khmer feel uncomfortable for being dark. Most of that product comes from vietnam. They are the one's whom are really inconfident and are descendents of the youns.

Anonymous said...

Blame yourself before you did to this young Khmer lady.
Of course she speak well our Khmer language. But to speak on front of a lot of people is different than just listening or watching.
Great, if some of you (critics) will able to stand/sing free in front of a camera and microphone.

Anonymous said...

Music is universal language! It is nice to see Laura Mam sings to the world! Even if I don't like all her music but if I like just one of her music and I would still buy the whole CD!

I would say to Laura Mam and don't be discouraged by any of the negative comments if one day you become successful and it will be your determination and ambition! People who say negative about you because they can't be like you! And for those who can do and why don't they do so the whole world can judge them!

Anonymous said...

I just don't understand why are so many of you are so negative toward this girl? Before you criticizing others, please go in front of a mirror ask yourself why? Yes that is right, what have you accomplished or done anything for Khmer in Cambodia or outside of Cambodia?

Anonymous said...

Only dumb, gullible, abnoxious yuppies who don't know real music would like this kind of music.

Anonymous said...

All I can say is that my 5 years old girl can sing way way better and sound much much better than that. who ever like to listen to Laura Man, you're just a bunch of idiots you have not tast in music at all mother fuckers!

Anonymous said...

To 12:02PM

What you see is what you get. And if you don't like that is okay and there is always other people who like the music and that is where the money come from. ahahhahhaha

Anonymous said...

Laura living in the States not making money of Cambodian in Cambodia at least she has her heart to preserve her languages people should not put her down and discourage her.The people that starting to pull the plugs and gave negative comments about this young lady are not khmer,look at the French the Youn the Thai always kill the khmer intelligent like Laura (one)Do everyone agree with me ? If they re real khmer they won't put down their own race.

Anonymous said...

I'm not too amused nor enthusiastic about this dumb abnoxious broad who's asking for her monkey to get spanked!

Anonymous said...

12:05pm I'm real Khmer. Laura is Suck. Where is my lady Phan Navy... now that's a real singing star! she made Laura Mam look link child play.

Anonymous said...

To 12:02PM,12:03PM,12:09PM, 12:05PM


You used to be her best friend and now not anymore? ahahhahhahha

Remember…. hate will not help you make money and it is the music that will help you make money. Why can you be like Laura Mam and make some music! ahahhahhahaha

Show me the money then I believe you!

Anonymous said...

i have nothing against Laura Man, but when she sings in Khmer she sound retarted. Now I believe if you can speak or sing do it the right way. but if you know it don't sound good. don't do it.

like i said I like Laura Mam. but her voice in Khmer is not for me. Sound kinda retarted and youn trying to talk Khmer.

Anonymous said...

12:17,

Come on let be fair. You cannot compare Laura Mam to Phan Navy. That is just like comparing orange to apple. One is raised Cambodia and the other in the USA. Can Phan Navy speak English fluently or read/write English well, I don't think so. Same as for Laura, she is not going to be able to write/read well in Khmer or speak in proper khmer.

Anonymous said...

12:33 PM, but Phan Navy doesn't butchered American song. she stay out of it. However Laura Mam butchered Khmer song very bad. would you like it if someone butchered your favorit song you like badly??

I don't see Laura going any further beyond this.

Anonymous said...

Laura Man-Looks Like Me Swa Rom Monkiss?

Anonymous said...

1:28PM, EXACTLY I THOUGHT SHE WAS YOUN KHMER AS WELL.

Anonymous said...

Heng Soy,

I am 100% with you!

Go, Laura go! You are on the right track and have done very well!

Anet Khmer

វិចិត្រ said...

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តែ​សំដី​ឈ្លើយ​អ៊ីចឹង​មក​អួត​ថា​ខ្លួន​ឯង​ស្រលាញ់​វប្បធម៌​ខ្មែរ​យ៉ាង​ម៉េច​?

Anonymous said...

Pol Pot, Ta mok... and Khmer Vietminh speaking khmer well who khmers blood had been crushed in their hands.
Although our Khmer daughters just like Laura Mam and many other Khmers children abroads have not forgotten their own incestors, their national origin of Khmers..
More often in many Khmer ceremony oversea they're learning khmer traditional shows at school, university presenting to foreign guests and they're proud to be khmers even they does not speak Khmer well somewhat normal as usual with accent Khmers of foreign born.
Please accept Khmer to be Khmer.
Those accent speaking Khmers born abroad they will not sell Khmer land an ich to any staigners.....Thanks

Anonymous said...

Yeah, Laura Man's monkey definitely get spanked overnight!

Anonymous said...

Anyways, tell Laura Mambo that I'll do the honors of spanking her monkey and leave her with a delicious creampie dessert!!

Anonymous said...

Is it just me, or do all the haters sound like they have small penises and it makes them sad about their own lives so when they see something they can't have, it drives them to the near point of insanity. Also, they sound pretty perverted.

dear everyone, don't respond to them or use kind words when responding to these haters. It sounds like too many people have been mean to them when they were young and they have been hardened by these events. Responding or getting angry at their hate will only make them feel like their hate is justified.

just let them be.

Anonymous said...

3:08AM it's obvious that you're familiar with those perverted terms. anyhow, ain't nobody was even talking talking to you so shut the FUCK UP!!

Anonymous said...

Laura,
Keep up the good work. I and all my children love your songs.

Fresno,

Anonymous said...

Some of the language here is so undignified and unjustified. Laura doing what she loves it does not meant it fits to everyone's taste but to imply sexual degradation on an innocent Khmer like that is detestable. Let's challenge the admin of the blog to reveal the IP Add of the predators so we all know who they are.

Anonymous said...

3:08AM it's obvious that you're familiar with those perverted terms. anyhow, ain't nobody was even talking talking to you so shut the FUCK UP!!

AWww look it the little hater's feelings got hurt when he realized he was projecting all of his own insecurities on Laura. This poor little hater can't even handle one little truthful comment about his pathetic little life.

I want to feel bad for you hater but your incessant comments make you seem like a really lonely and lost soul. I am sorry that you are so lonely. I agree with the person earlier, don't fight with people like this. They have really sad lives, try to encourage them to seek therapy or something.

You should also try Buddhism, it will help your life.

Anonymous said...

10:54AM, -and who the FUCK are you suppose to be the websites blog-dog?

Anonymous said...

And you must be...I know! Mr. I am so insecure about my sad life I project my insecurities onto others so the world will finally pay attention to me. You know that all we can hear is PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!! I need love!! You are a child.

Sounds about right? Anybody agree with me? Please seek help because you are too old for this behavior.

Anonymous said...

How the hell is this dumb abnoxious broad laura man gonna even be a role model if she's singing a song about smoking weed(marijuana)? Is this her way of promoting drug use to our next Khmer generations? I don't know why there's all these comments condoning this "pothead culture".

Anonymous said...

PEOPLE, PLEASE STOP TALKING ABOUT LAURA MAM, OK!... I KNOW SHE IS SUCKY SUCKY LONG TIME. SO FINAL VERDICT IS THAT SHE IS SUCK AND THAT SHOULD BE FINAL. NOW GO LAY DOWN!

Anonymous said...

final verdict is that you don't have any authority on a final verdict, you are just scared because everyone hates your annoying thoughts and you can't come up with anything better to say.

i bet you if i tell you to shut up or give up, you are going to vow in your heart that you will never stop this battle because it is very important battle for you to win. This is a big one for you!! Go you!