Sunday, October 17, 2010

Language Use

Theary Seng, in another
Banana Republic, not too far
from this one:
the Monkey Forest of
Ubud, Bali, 15 Oct. 2010
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Opinion by Theary C. Seng



I have been a reader of KI Media from the very beginning but only religiously within the last couple of years and would like to send a belated public congratulations on its 5th anniversary and its 10 Million visitor milestone. I am pleased to be mentioned as an “inspiration” for its inception, especially when I have such a high regard for KI Media for its value and contribution to democracy in Cambodia.

Recently, I have been delighted with the postings of Khmer Democrat. Where have you been the last 5 years?! Personally, I may not adopt some of the manner of speech but my appreciation extends beyond my own sensibility to the values these postings have for democracy and freedom of expression in Cambodia.

First, I like the edgy, irreverent, sly subversive, intelligent tone. KI Media commentaries, specifically those of Khmer Democrat and Sacrava, are different from the often vulgar comments in the free for all section where, due to a lack of imaginative shaping, these personal, racial, sexist attacks usually remained at the level of invective.

Second and related, KI Media runs counter to the political correctness of this CPP fear-infested culture still functioning with a Stalinist orthodoxy. The voice (of KI Media generally, Heng Soy, Khmer Democrat and Sacrava specifically) rings with irony and disapproval rather than the cultural deference and feigned public reverence. Their voices pierce through the public façade of hypocrisy and entrenched fears and provide private release for the high-strung population under the stress of poverty, corruption, domestic violence and other ills. They are not afraid to give offense on behalf of the oppressed, the ill-used, the victims of a kangaroo court/political machinery run amok etc.



Third, these voices provoke us to think more expansively about politics as they relate to cultures, traditions, class, upbringing, education-level, background and experiences, religion etc. Theirs is a voice of educated communication, with pungency, wit and flair. In a society and under a leadership trained on thought-control, KI Media is refreshing in breaking the taboos – mildly or with pointed sharpness, depending on the topics to be addressed.

We live in a society where we have lost all sense of proportions: when a boy steals a piece of bread, he is sent to jail; when a man kills 2 million of his fellow Cambodians, he is invited to Paris for a peace agreement. We are overwhelmed by the magnitude and constant myriad abuses and violent crimes. So, we focus disproportionately on the pettiness, as the pettiness is within our realm of reaction and it makes it seem that we are doing something about a pet moral issue offending us.

For example, the word “ass” is not a nice word but it’s not on the same level of the f- word. Moreover, it’s a clever play on word; in English a donkey is also called an ass. This manner of speaking may not be within my sensibility, but this is qualitatively different than the meaningless vulgarity on display in the free for all comment section as well as the earthy vulgarity heard and seen on the streets of Phnom Penh. More generally speaking, KI Media explicitly dissuades vulgarity and itself does not engage in it. The once-in-awhile off-the-beat usage of “Ass”, “Shit”, “Idiots” is comic relief, public release and I appreciated it for its “punchy-ness” to address a serious problem. An “aw shucks” is not appropriate when a “SHIT!!!!!” is called for. (It may surprise you that this is coming from a person who can’t swear, in any language, for the life of hers.)

For me, KI Media (mainly Heng Soy, Khmer Democrat and Sacrava) give expression to the collective frustrations and they provide comic relief and public release – an attempt at a proportionate response via wit and humor to the violence and abuse in society.

In this regard, KI Media follows in the footsteps of The Onion, "Le Canard Enchainé" and Nokor Thom of Soth Polin of another era. More power to you, KI Media, for your contribution to democracy and free expression in this often time humor-less society devoid of wit and intelligence.

Wishing you another 10 (thousand) years of political offense and taboo-breaking on behalf of the oppressed and voiceless of Cambodia, the majority.

Theary C. Seng
. . . . .

P.s. Below are some random and not-so-random comments of searches I made on language and humor.


Other cognitive psychology and cognitive linguistics works indicate that word-choice has significant “framing effects” on the perceptions, memories, and attitudes of speakers and listeners

Obscenity is a matter of subject; vulgarity is a matter of tone. Although obscenity might be a vehicle for brilliantly perceptive expression, when it is not used as a device in educated communication, it will descend to vulgarity.

Sarcasm should not be like a saw, but a sword; it should cut, and not mangle —Lord Francis Jeffrey

caustic remark, irony, sarcasm, satire - witty language used to convey insults or scorn; "he used sarcasm to upset his opponent"; "irony is wasted on the stupid"; "Satire is a sort of glass, wherein beholders do generally discover everybody's face but their own"--Jonathan Swift

Buffoonish - a tendency toward coarse joking.

Facetiae - coarsely witty stories or books. — facetious

Ribaldry - coarse, vulgar, or obscene language or joking. — ribald

Blendword: Have you ever tried combining two words to make a completely innovative and funny word? Blendword comedy is nothing but the creation of funny words by blending two or three words.

Burlesque: This is a form of satire, since Burlesque comedy involves ridiculing any basic style of speech or even writing. Burlesque is theatrical entertainment of broad and parodic humor, which usually involves comic skits. It is said to have originated from the Italian Commedia dell'arte.

Caricature: Caricature involves exaggerated portrayal of a person’s mental, physical, or personality traits in wisecrack form. Caricatures can be insulting, complimentary, political or can be drawn solely for entertainment too.

Parody: Parody is defined as a work created to mock, comment on, or poke fun at an original work, its subject, or author, by means of humorous or satiric imitation. Parody is nothing but a composition that imitates or misrepresents somebody's style, in a humorous way.

Satire: Satire is defined as a sort of glass, wherein beholders do generally discover everybody's face but their own. Satire is a branch of comedy, which makes use of witty language to convey insults or scorn. In satire, human or individual vices, follies, abuses, or shortcomings are held up to reprimand by means of ridicule, burlesque, derision, irony, or other methods. Although satire is usually meant to be funny, the purpose of satire is not primarily humor, but an attack on something or some subject the author strongly disapproves of.

34 comments:

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

PRETTY WOMAN!

Anonymous said...

Bang Theary, how about those "ASSes" words used by Khmer Democrat??? Will they learn to improve by not using such disgusting words?

Anonymous said...

អាហ៊ុន សែន អាក្បត់ជាតិ។​

Anonymous said...

កញ្ញា ធារី និយាយបានល្អត្រឹមត្រូវណាស់!

លោកពូ សក្រវ៉ា លោក ហេងស៊យ ហើយនឹង
លោក ខ្មែរប្រជាធិបតេយ្យ ជា សមាជិកដ៏សំខាន់
របស់ ខេអាយមីឌីយ៉ាយើងនេះ។

មានតែពួកអាជើងល្អមួយក្ដាប់ដែលជាខ្ញុំបំរើរបស់អា សត្វលា(donkey) ហ៊ុនសែន នោះទេ ដែលវា
មកឆាឆៅ ខេអាយមីឌីយ៉ា ប្រើពាក្យ អាសអាភាស
ជេរប្រទេចផ្ដាសសា មិត្តអ្នកអាន នឹង ខេអាយមីឌីយ៉ា​យើង។ តែសូមកុំបារម្មណ៏អី
ថ្អៃណាមួយយើង នឹង ទាត់កំប៉េះគូថវាឲ្យឡប់សតិ
ម្ដង!

One day, we are going to kick their arse silly, okay?​ Their arse is mine!

[Un beau jour, on verra...Leur cul est à moi, MDR!]


Passer-by/ផាសស័របាយ

Anonymous said...

Well said

J

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

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Email: cheymongkol@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Well written and stylist comment Theary. I enjoy reading your posts. That being said, I must admit we don't share the same view on many issues.

Anonymous said...

Best of luck in life and excellent health to this wonderful and beautiful Khmer lady from Phnom Penh, Miss Theary Seng. May the Lord my God bless you and all your loved ones.

Anonymous said...

Well said, Theary!

Anonymous said...

Good job, Theary! You are the scholar among the intellects and not-quite-intellectuals.

Anyway, there are many ways words that carry the same weight, no matter how polished or raws they are. The bottom line, it's the intention and action that matter.

Through out Khmer Rouge time and in their every day conducts, there was nothing, but up-lifting and polite intercourse and seminars. But at the end, many people had perished through their genocidal action/policy.

KhmerIsrael said...

Here are some Proverbs about words:

-Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones.

-He that hath knowledge spareth his words: and a man or (woman) of understanding is of an excellent spirit.

-The words of a man's mouth are as deep waters, and the wellspring of wisdom as a flowing brook.

-The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly.

Thanks Theary Seng. That was a nice song you sang! Get it?

Anonymous said...

These CPP people tell their children to "sompeah" and steal and cheat at the same time because they do the same thing. We live in a fake world. Its a good thing KI Media let us express our anger with words we agree in our feelings.

Anonymous said...

My dear Theary teach khmer people how it works the nuclear power generation.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjgdgAhOzXQ

KhmerIsrael said...

The Unruly Tongue

>For in many things we offend all. If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body.

>Behold, we put bits in the horses' mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body.

>Behold also the ships, which though they be so great, and are driven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small helm, whithersoever the governor listeth.

>Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth!

>And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.

>For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind:

>But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. (From the bible)

Anonymous said...

we are not alone in this Universe according to our Buddha.

OVNI à New York 13 octobre 2010


http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xf7hw6_ovni-a-new-york-13-octobre-2010_tech

Anonymous said...

OMG! I love it when KI-Media plastered Ms. Theary Seng's picture on this blog.
Her beauty and to top it off with intellectual.....OMG!
Thank you KI-Media and congratulations on your 5 years milestone.

Anonymous said...

Very good stuff! KI media very good educating about khmer.

Anonymous said...

As this point I am one who's enjoying reading Miss Theary comments indeed I would say not to agree with many of your opinions.
For instance one of your Article in the last few month was mentioned as so called by you to thank youn for their liberation of Cambodia in January 1979. It was strike me out to me in your view on this that YOUN Vietminh and Khmer utopic communist are long time alliance before and after khmer independent in the 50th.
Youn invade Cambodia in 1979 was not their good intention to help khmer for just to fulfill Ho Chi Mink dream of Vietminh Westward journey to swallow Cambodia. NO thank to vitenam colonialism, federation, Vietnamization of Cambodia.
Khmer communist and Khmer Vietminh are comeradery together who were masterminded the Killing Fields, the K5 and those Khmer vietminh now is still exixting to help youn to accomplish their mission in Cambodia.
I adore nowsadays a shine of Khmer woman in Khmer arena national leadership like Ms. Mu Suchea (SRP), Ms. Chak sokhon (KMS),including also yourself.

I admire all Khmer compatriot not to sale your consience to Money and power of the most crooky Regime in Cambodia to day.

Long live Khmer Compatriot.

Ex U.S President Kennedy said:
" Ask what you can do for your country...."
We Khmer ask what we can do for Cambodia.

Anonymous said...

Cheymongkol!Program Developper Teaching Khmer language in SURIN area ! You have friends abroad, USA, France, Canada, Austaly, inside Cambodia to support you, moral and financial. Keep up your work.

Anonymous said...

Hay theary,

You have a to be a bit stable with your political views/action in Cambodia...don't blowing with the win...just to get your name out in public. Be consistant...Let your God help you with focus. Sometime, people don't really understand where is your political stand: either contribute to the ARP or kissing HS's "ass" to servive in Cambodia! Are you truely believe that you are able to express whatever you think under the current govt? From what I know...event the CPP children and relative still seek place to stay out side of Cambodia...why is that?

Anonymous said...

hey 11:44 PM,

Hay is for horses...Man!

Anonymous said...

Hay 11:44 PM, huh? hun? ya wanna try again?

what 11:47 says

ជនពាល said...

សូមប្រយ័ត្ន លោកតាសកាវា ធ្លាប់បានគូររូប
សត្វយូគោយូគា ដែលរូបគំនូរនោះ មានន័យចង់សំដៅ ទៅលើរពពួកមនុស្សដែលចេះតែកាន់ជើង និងអួតសរសើរតែគ្នីគ្នាឯង ទោះបីជាពួកគេមានកំហុសខុសឆ្គងយ៉ាងណា ​ក៏សត្វយូគោយូគានេះ ​មើលមិនឃើញឡើយ ។
នៅកម្ពុជាយើង គឺមានសត្វយូគោយូគាជាពីរពួក
ទី១៖ គឺពពួកសត្វយូគោយូគា ដែលនាំគ្នីគ្នាអែបអបគណបក្សកានអំណាច ។
ទី២៖ គឺពពួកសត្វយូគោយូគា ដែលនាំគ្នីគ្នាគាំ
ទ្រគណបក្សប្រឆាំង ។
សត្វយូគោយូគាទាំងពីរជំពូកនេះ គឺពួកវានាំគ្នា ជួយការពារនិងគាំទ្រគ្នីគ្នាឯង
ទាំងងងិតងងល់ ។
ខ្មែរ!! គួរតែឈប់នាំគ្នា ធ្វើជាសត្វយូគោយូគាតទៅទៀត ។ត្រូវចេះក្លាហាន ត្រូវធ្វើអ្វី អោយស្របតាមសតិសម្បជញ្ញះរបស់ខ្លួន ត្រូវលះបង់ចោលនូវ នូវគំនិតអាត្មានិយម និងបក្សពួកនិយម ។កុំសម្ងំយកតែសុខតែខ្លួនឯង ។ ត្រូវចេះក្លាហាន ចេញមុខការពារអ្នកទាន់ខ្សោយ
នៅពេលដែលឃើញរឿងអយុត្តិធម៌ ។ មានជាឧទាហណ៍ស្រាប់ កសិករខ្មែរពីរនាក់
ត្រូវបាន តុលាការឃុំខ្លួនដោយសារតែពួកគេ
បានធ្វើសកម្មភាពដើម្បីការពារដីធ្លីរបស់ពួកគេ ជាដើម ? តើមានឥសរក្សជនខ្មែរប៉ុន្មាន
នាក់ ដែលក្លាហាន ចេញមុខមកការពារ ?
ផ្ទុយទៅវិញ យើងបានឃើញ ពពួកសត្វយូគោយូគាដែលនៅខាងគណបក្ស
កាន់អំណាច បែរជានាំគ្នីគ្នាសម្ងំយកសុខ មួយចំនួនទៀត​ ដើម្បីបុណ្យស័ក្កិ និងលាភសការះ បែរជានាំគ្នាប្រព្រឹត្តផ្ទុយពី
សុឆន្ទះទៅវិញ ។
!!!!!!!!!!!!បាបកម្មណាស់ !!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Theary,
Your English languages and views are good in term of developed country in western emisphere.
In Cambodia now even School or Skyrocking building, road are still far behind in Education in South E. Asia due to corrupted Khmer system, also the demagogue system of governemnt just like Sihanouk an old time. Red Cross, school, belong to Monique and Sihanouuk, now belong to Bun Rany & Hun Sen, these are the people moneys not their...
Your views style reaching out to Higher educated in Cambodia that was not in proportion to poor hungry mojority Khmer. Even in English the simple facts and meaning of writing will be spreaded from one person to another by mouth of words, This will be History to help our Country.
For instance In the 60 the news paper that was sold and inspired most readers was "SO CHIV VATHOR" and Koh Santhepheap, Nokor Thom, the news for regular citizen down to earth with ordinary class people. Even though I was personnaly did like "SO Chivathor" news paper that was the mouthpiece of Sihanouk of that time. In fact this news reach out to " Neak Lok Trakoun " in Cambodia.

This is just my little opinion for you to reach the mainsteam of the Khmer because you will inspire them as regular simple skill of communication to the majority of poor class Khmer citizen.

Anonymous said...

12:07PM
ខ្មែរឥឡូវនេះឈប់ភ្លើទៀតហើយ
ជាខ្មែរសម័យ Computer,​សម័យ Internet
ជាខ្មែរ សម័យ Social Network.
សូមឯងកុំរំលឹកនិយាយពាក្សនឹងទៀតទៅ ឯងឈប់ឈរកណ្តាលទៀតទៅ ចូលឯងនិយាយ
អ្វីត្រង់ៗ ងាយរាស្ត្រស្រួលស្តាប់។
គឺ១​ យើងមិនយកខ្មែរគ្នាឯងធ្វើសត្រូវទេ
២ យើងកំចាត់ជនពុករលួយ
៣ យើងកំចាត់ជនដៃប្រឡាក់ឈាម
៤ យើងកំចាត់ចោរឈ្លានពានទឹកដីខ្មែរ។
we fight for the truth, we fight for the khmer people right to let them live in the Freedom of the pure world.

Anonymous said...

Imaginatively-shaped elitism and classism...

I am better than thou, therefore, you lowly people are "unsophisticated," "uneducated," and only know how to spew comic reliefs and public releases in unruly manners with vulgarity and profanity...

ouch,...touche!!!

Borros Khmer.... said...

Why Thoery seng always post her picture on the blog... she is chines no Khmer woman ! Is she want to be famous or what?

Seng is Chinese last name ... I rather see Meas, Prak, Khieve, Sam, Hun, ........

Where are all my dark skin Khmer girls....come out. Like a Khmer girl Chom Nimol...lol. she is so cute. Rous sereysothea,...

We want to see more Dark Skin Khmer girl. They are the real pure Khmer and very beautiful..

sincerely...borros Khmer...

Anonymous said...

SOMDAY SOR CHEAT MEAJEAT SOR POUCH
This is Khmers's mentallity.

Anonymous said...

4:37AM

Hey! young boy!

Be calm and collective, you can then learn a lot more.
Please learn to judge people by his or her merit rather than physical appearence.Be less discriminated.

Old perception of man is always better, no longer valid.
She is a remakable person who has shared alot to progress our society.

I understand that you are entitled to your own say,however your gaga won't help you learning anything.
Be wise, be opened for much greater understanding.

Peasant

Anonymous said...

12:50AM,

I like your comment very much.

And yes Theary, although you have reached the peak of knowledge and skills, but please keep your writing simple, so everyone can enjoy your beautiful comment.

"La simplicite fait la beaute"

Anonymous said...

i fear capable women. i fear that they would not be interested in me. but, i am, at the same time, very much allured, curious, and attracted to her intelligence...i find both her woman-ness and her knowledge very sexy...

so, in plain speaking, i like the educated and the slut, all in one package...nothing can beat a hot s.. after a fierce political debate...grrrrrrrhhh...

Anonymous said...

We need more Theary Sengs in Cambodia!!