Showing posts with label Future Light Orphanage of Worldmate. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Future Light Orphanage of Worldmate. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Cambodian spirit survives

Teens from the country share cultural dances -- and reveal their resiliency through turmoil (Photo: Kara Gifford / Na Pueo)

Oct 13, 2008

By Daniel Ching / Na Pueo
Star Bulletin (Hawaii, USA)

When people think of the country of Cambodia, what comes to mind? Death, poverty, destruction?

Today, Cambodia is one of the most poverty-stricken countries in Southeast Asia. Because of the 1975-79 Khmer Rouge era and the Vietnamese invasion that followed, Cambodia's rich culture was virtually obliterated. Pol Pot, leader of the communist regime, had overthrown the existing government and attempted to "restart civilization in Year Zero." This cultlike agenda to strip Cambodia of its identity and bring civilization back to archaic, agrarian life was as devastating to Cambodia as the Cultural Revolution was to China. And yet the destruction would not end here. When the Vietnamese invaded, the chaos increased.

What is left? What could possibly remain from such crimes against humanity?

The Cambodian spirit lives on, as unbelievable as that seem. I saw it with my own eyes -- the smile of a few Cambodian teenagers who seem to have transcended the most horrific of evils, transforming the most tragic of events into the most inspirational of stories.

A few weeks ago, my school was fortunate enough to host a few Cambodian teenagers from the Future Light orphanage, a facility in Phnom Penh devoted to sheltering Cambodian children from the poverty-stricken environment they live in and helping them develop the skills needed to become future leaders. Because they were coming to Hawaii to meet their sponsored foster parents -- many of whom are Mid-Pacific Institute faculty -- for the first time, the plan was for them to first perform their indigenous dance for the school at a special assembly. After this, a few MPI performing arts students were to share their dance technique and style with them.

When the assembly started, no one really knew what to expect. So many questions flooded people's minds. How did these Cambodian dancers survive such traumatic ordeals? How many of them were they? What would their dance be like?

All these thoughts were extinguished, however, once the dancers came out onto the floor. Once the music started and the dancers began their intricate hand gestures, I almost forgot that these were teenagers who had been born into such turmoil. Their dance said it all. The grace, confidence and simple gleefulness with whichthey danced suggested that these Cambodians could retain their humanity in a society that had virtually none.

While the student body was inspired by the dance the Cambodian teenagers performed, we still thought of them as victims. As much as I admired their achievements and enjoyed their presence, there was a hint of pity in my perception of the Cambodians. It wasn't until we walked up to the dance studios and interacted with them through dance privately that I started to perceive the Cambodians as my new friends rather than orphans.

It came to me in an epiphany that this was not a time to sympathize or grieve. Rather, this was a time to share one's culture with the other, laugh with each other -- take pleasure in the human spirit for all its tenacity and fervor.

As they taught us how to do the Khmer dance with our hands and we showed them how to pop and lock; as both Cambodian and MPI student alike constantly pulled out cameras, insisting on more and more shots as we gazed in pure delight and awe each other's moves; as e-mails were exchanged and hugs were given, I realized that this was much more than a special assembly -- this was the epitome of the human spirit.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Cambodian Orphans Perform Traditional Khmer Dance and Music During Visit with Hawaii Email Foster Parents


30 children ages 14 to 20 to participate in cultural exchanges with other Oahu students

8/26/2008
By Jennifer Pang
Hawaii Reporter


HONOLULU – http://www.emailfosterparents.org – A group of talented children from the Future Light Orphanage of Worldmate (FLOW) just outside of Phnom Penh, Cambodia, arrive on Oahu September 3. Many will meet their email foster parents for the first time, and also participate in cultural exchanges with other Hawaii students of the same age from Kaimuki High School, Le Jardin, Mid-Pacific Institute, and Punahou School. The visit culminates with an extravagant fundraising performance at 7 p.m. on Saturday, September 13 at Mamiya Theatre. Tax-deductible tickets are available for $50 and $75 ($100 tickets are sold out) by calling 545-3676, and include a wine and pupu reception with the performers from 5 – 6:30 p.m. at the theatre plaza.

“For most of the children, this trip is the first time they’ve ever left Cambodia,” said Oahu resident Rob Hail, Founder and President of Email Foster Parents International, a non-profit that pairs caring adults as foster parents with orphaned and vulnerable children in developing countries. “What’s even more exciting is that on September 3, many foster parents will get to meet their foster kids for the first time, after years of frequent email correspondence. It’s sure to be a chicken-skin moment.”

FLOW was founded in 1992 by Phaly Nuon, a dynamic humanitarian who survived Cambodia’s infamous “Killing Fields” of the Khmer Rouge. The orphanage cares for 250 children ages 5 to 22, and an additional 100 children who come from neighboring villages for lunch and English classes. All kids attend public school or university as a condition of residency, and the older children participate in caring for their younger “siblings”. As part of the curriculum and to provide a link to their rich and ancient heritage, children are given the opportunity to learn Khmer classical dance and music. Over the years, the program has grown and expanded, and in 2006 twelve students were invited to perform in Tokyo, Japan. Following this, Hail, and fellow Rotarians Nancy Walden and Hal Darcey decided they would figure out a way to get the children to Hawaii, despite many hurdles with visas and cost.

“We wanted to bring the kids here, so they could meet their foster parents in the flesh, as well as experience our American and Hawaiian cultures while sharing their own culture with us,” said Nancy Walden, Cambodian Children Cultural Tour Chair. “These extremely talented teens represent a positive future for Cambodia. To see them perform is an inspiring and delightful experience.”

Email Foster Parents International (EFPI) blossomed out of a program founded in 2001 by Rob Hail. The program become a 501(c)3 non-profit in 2008. Today EFPI provides a bridge between orphaned and vulnerable children in developing countries with responsible, caring international donors who offer them support and encouragement primarily through email correspondence and through a $360 annual donation that provides care for the foster child. Foster parents can travel to FLOW to meet their children, getting to know them while staying in FLOW’s guesthouse.

“The relationship you build with your foster child is powerful,” said Hal Darcey, EFPI Vice President. “Your encouraging words are so important; they soon start calling you mom or dad. If you have children, they begin to see them as brothers or sisters. It really touches your heart to know you are making such a difference in their lives.”

Those who are interested in becoming a foster email parent should visit http://www.emailfosterparents.org or call 545-3676.

During the two-week trip, the children will stay with their foster parents or other host families. Highlights of the trip include the following (Media are invited to attend these events):

September 3, 9 a.m., USS Bowfin

30 students and 8 chaperones arrive in Honolulu from Cambodia, meet their foster parents – many of them for the first time. *That afternoon a video news release will be delivered to TV media; photos will be emailed to print media.

September 7, 4 p.m., Central Union Church

Students perform in full costume, makeup and headgear in an hour and a half two-hour performance. *Media area will be set aside for videographers, photographers and reporters. This performance is for the members of Central Union Church and for the Cambodian Community in Hawaii.

September 9, 8 a.m. to Noon, Kaimuki High School

Cambodian students visit Kaimuki High School, give a 45-minute performance to the students at 8:45 a.m. Following this, groups of students will be escorted by Kaimuki student government officers to classes, including wood shop, electronics, a math class and ukulele lessons. The visit ends with a trip to the cafeteria to pick up an American school lunch, which the children will eat in the theatre with the dramatic arts students.

Jennifer Pang is the President of Pang Communications