First published in May/June 2008 in The Phnom Penh Post as part of the Voice of Justice columns. Of my travels and extensive living outside Cambodia, I have never witnessed elsewhere such the degree of upside-down modus operandi for daily functioning as I do here in Cambodia. Many times the people who are obstructionists and create obstacles are the people who should know better (both foreigners and Khmers), not the "ignorant" people of the villages I hear people blaming; they are people who lack generosity of spirit or they have enough information, even intelligence, but lacking wisdom. Currently, the Lords of Poverty roam and strut among us here in Cambodia armed with great resources to do damage, and in the process taint the image of those who actually are doing commendable work. Through personal experience, I am against private company acting as the clearinghouse of millions of aid dollars for local NGOs. These clearinghouses have no incentive to do humanitarian work. On the contrary, they do everything to make themselves indispensable; that is to say, they use their position to acquire knowledge of local NGOs and in turn, use that knowledge to divide the NGOs to further justify their existence; these private companies have the greater incentive to give the grants to mediocre NGOs and disparage the successful ones, again to make their existence necessary: "See, how divisive and incompetent these NGOs are and how we necessary." Also, I want to emphasize that the percentage of foreign consultants should be reduced in favor of local hires... With a little bit of patience and wisdom, a local consultant can be had for a fraction of the salary of the foreign consultant. More than that, it works against the mentality of genuine capacity-building. People who are of integrity and genuine in their observations would readily agree with me that current foreign assistance and practice of hiring are inadvertently embedding the culture of dependency and the Lords of Poverty.
Let's keep that pointing finger at the government accountable; however, let's also focus on the three other fingers pointing back at us. Let's focus on the hypocrisy and outrageousness of the do-gooders – donors and civil society – in light of other dark, societal norms.
Societal norms
What arc some societal norms darkening current Cambodia? And who are the enablers of these darkening norms?
Outrageous behavior
We live in a society where outrageous behavior – by us Khmer and foreigners alike – is the norm. As donors, civil society and other "do-gooders", we enable this outrageousness, and sometimes engage in it with full confidence that we can get away with it. Take for example the event of this past Thursday at CSD where "good people" hired armed Ministry of Interior police to exact emotional violence (that easily could have turned into physical violence) on staff and others. Where do we even begin in pointing out the countless, irregular, illegal, "undue process" and outrageousness of this act?
The more outrageous acts are the norm, the more dense and obtuse we become; the less we are able to hear and understand, the more outrageous we become. It's an upward, vicious, spiraling cycle of raising the volume. "We" in this regard includes both us Khmer and foreigners.
Disproportionate reaction
Disproportionate reaction is the norm. Instead of reacting to these outrageous acts with outrage, we stay mute; we claim neutrality; or, we smile and laugh and shake our heads at the Cambodians or the crazy foreigners hiding in Cambodian society. We are so used to the outrageous (which is beyond our scope to exact control) that in order to still feel we do have sensibility, we over-react to the minutiae where in light of the totality of circumstances, it has no significance. This is why killers of millions are permitted to get away with murder and are still held in awe.
(As an aside, I'd like to make a distinction between fairness and neutrality, as they are often used interchangeably. If one is a stakeholder and has adequate information, one can no longer claim inaction as neutrality and not enable the other side. Neutrality is reserved for 3rd parties who are not in the know, nor should have interests in knowing. But to be inactive or not take a stance as a stakeholder with sufficient information is to not neutral but to inadvertently and foolishly be enabling. As I often tell my staff: As your boss. I want to be and will be fair; I do not want and will not be neutral. If one staff brings to me shoddy work, and another excellent work, do not think I will remain neutral and not make a distinction. To the contrary, if I do not praise excellence and be indifferent or dismissive of mediocrity, I am being unfair to the one who worked hard and produced excellence, and stripped all incentives for future excellence. Fairness relates to using the same measuring stick; neutrality relates to information and how far or close we are to a situation.)
Another aspect of disproportionate reaction that is a societal norm relates to the interaction between a Cambodian and a Westerner. Generally speaking, a Cambodian is passive and deferential; the Westerner assertive/aggressive and overbearing. This unbalanced equation creates a norm whereby a Cambodian will always be at a disadvantage in relation to her foreign counterpart - in a discussion, in a negotiation, in a relationship.
Empty verbiage
We Khmers are still lacking in sophistication as our verbiage too often arc viscerally empty and crude; they are understood as such and accepted as norms. We function at this level of the reality of unreality.
Foreigners are more sophisticated in masking their empty verbiage. But sophistication is only a higher art-form of facade, superficiality. One example of how foreigners have normalized the empty rhetoric is in the area of "capacity-building" or "local ownership". Foreign donors "train" and train and train and train on ownership, on building local capacity because it sounds good and right; just don't "do" ownership, as that competes into their terrain; competes into their survival; they need to justify their existence through the "incompetence", the "divisiveness" of the local NGOs, the local Cambodians. The growing pool of highly capable Cambodians is swept away by these generalizations to their detriment.
Envy
We are so envious of excellence and success and do nothing to strive toward them but rather expend our energy in being in a state of envy. If only envy could stay within the self and not spill into destructive, obstructive behavior of gossip and tearing down.
Mistrust, distrust
Mistrust arises from misrepresentation, from a disregard for the sentiments of the affected individuals or groups. It also arises from political spin. We Khmer must be more careful of this in light our culture of fear, secrecy and the paranoid produced by the Khmer Rouge years and other regimes since.
Dependency, perpetuate "Lords of Poverty" mentality
Perpetuating the status quo is perpetuating poor governance, perpetuating mismanagement, perpetuating a "lords of poverty" mentality.
In 1993, yes 99% of foreign consultants were justified; now, 5% are justifiable. The others are embedding and enabling the mentality of dependency.
Ownership – how many local NGOs are truly "owned" by that director or senior staff? Many are run (behind the scenes) by consultants and sometimes ambitious/over exuberance 2nd year law students who have the legal expertise but cannot "feel" the situation nor understand the larger vision of what is Cambodia and "Cambodian".
Disincentives of reform
The societal norms mentioned above are disincentives of genuine reform and change.
The way we at CSD try to fight against these darkening societal norms is by encouraging a little bit of attitude among the staff. Strike that. We encourage a lot of attitude. With a lot of heart. It is the necessary first step toward ownership and social development.
Theary C. SENG, former director of Center for Social Development (March 2006—July 2009), founded the Center for Justice & Reconciliation (www.cjr-cambodia.org) and is currently writing her second book, under a grant, amidst her speaking engagements.
LORDS OF POVERTY
Enablers of Hypocrisy and Mismanagement
Enablers of Hypocrisy and Mismanagement
Let's keep that pointing finger at the government accountable; however, let's also focus on the three other fingers pointing back at us. Let's focus on the hypocrisy and outrageousness of the do-gooders – donors and civil society – in light of other dark, societal norms.
Societal norms
What arc some societal norms darkening current Cambodia? And who are the enablers of these darkening norms?
Outrageous behavior
We live in a society where outrageous behavior – by us Khmer and foreigners alike – is the norm. As donors, civil society and other "do-gooders", we enable this outrageousness, and sometimes engage in it with full confidence that we can get away with it. Take for example the event of this past Thursday at CSD where "good people" hired armed Ministry of Interior police to exact emotional violence (that easily could have turned into physical violence) on staff and others. Where do we even begin in pointing out the countless, irregular, illegal, "undue process" and outrageousness of this act?
The more outrageous acts are the norm, the more dense and obtuse we become; the less we are able to hear and understand, the more outrageous we become. It's an upward, vicious, spiraling cycle of raising the volume. "We" in this regard includes both us Khmer and foreigners.
Disproportionate reaction
Disproportionate reaction is the norm. Instead of reacting to these outrageous acts with outrage, we stay mute; we claim neutrality; or, we smile and laugh and shake our heads at the Cambodians or the crazy foreigners hiding in Cambodian society. We are so used to the outrageous (which is beyond our scope to exact control) that in order to still feel we do have sensibility, we over-react to the minutiae where in light of the totality of circumstances, it has no significance. This is why killers of millions are permitted to get away with murder and are still held in awe.
(As an aside, I'd like to make a distinction between fairness and neutrality, as they are often used interchangeably. If one is a stakeholder and has adequate information, one can no longer claim inaction as neutrality and not enable the other side. Neutrality is reserved for 3rd parties who are not in the know, nor should have interests in knowing. But to be inactive or not take a stance as a stakeholder with sufficient information is to not neutral but to inadvertently and foolishly be enabling. As I often tell my staff: As your boss. I want to be and will be fair; I do not want and will not be neutral. If one staff brings to me shoddy work, and another excellent work, do not think I will remain neutral and not make a distinction. To the contrary, if I do not praise excellence and be indifferent or dismissive of mediocrity, I am being unfair to the one who worked hard and produced excellence, and stripped all incentives for future excellence. Fairness relates to using the same measuring stick; neutrality relates to information and how far or close we are to a situation.)
Another aspect of disproportionate reaction that is a societal norm relates to the interaction between a Cambodian and a Westerner. Generally speaking, a Cambodian is passive and deferential; the Westerner assertive/aggressive and overbearing. This unbalanced equation creates a norm whereby a Cambodian will always be at a disadvantage in relation to her foreign counterpart - in a discussion, in a negotiation, in a relationship.
Empty verbiage
We Khmers are still lacking in sophistication as our verbiage too often arc viscerally empty and crude; they are understood as such and accepted as norms. We function at this level of the reality of unreality.
Foreigners are more sophisticated in masking their empty verbiage. But sophistication is only a higher art-form of facade, superficiality. One example of how foreigners have normalized the empty rhetoric is in the area of "capacity-building" or "local ownership". Foreign donors "train" and train and train and train on ownership, on building local capacity because it sounds good and right; just don't "do" ownership, as that competes into their terrain; competes into their survival; they need to justify their existence through the "incompetence", the "divisiveness" of the local NGOs, the local Cambodians. The growing pool of highly capable Cambodians is swept away by these generalizations to their detriment.
Envy
We are so envious of excellence and success and do nothing to strive toward them but rather expend our energy in being in a state of envy. If only envy could stay within the self and not spill into destructive, obstructive behavior of gossip and tearing down.
Mistrust, distrust
Mistrust arises from misrepresentation, from a disregard for the sentiments of the affected individuals or groups. It also arises from political spin. We Khmer must be more careful of this in light our culture of fear, secrecy and the paranoid produced by the Khmer Rouge years and other regimes since.
Dependency, perpetuate "Lords of Poverty" mentality
Perpetuating the status quo is perpetuating poor governance, perpetuating mismanagement, perpetuating a "lords of poverty" mentality.
In 1993, yes 99% of foreign consultants were justified; now, 5% are justifiable. The others are embedding and enabling the mentality of dependency.
Ownership – how many local NGOs are truly "owned" by that director or senior staff? Many are run (behind the scenes) by consultants and sometimes ambitious/over exuberance 2nd year law students who have the legal expertise but cannot "feel" the situation nor understand the larger vision of what is Cambodia and "Cambodian".
Disincentives of reform
The societal norms mentioned above are disincentives of genuine reform and change.
The way we at CSD try to fight against these darkening societal norms is by encouraging a little bit of attitude among the staff. Strike that. We encourage a lot of attitude. With a lot of heart. It is the necessary first step toward ownership and social development.
Theary C. SENG, former director of Center for Social Development (March 2006—July 2009), founded the Center for Justice & Reconciliation (www.cjr-cambodia.org) and is currently writing her second book, under a grant, amidst her speaking engagements.
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Dear Ms. Seng Theary
Keep work on this and write more article once It is free for KI, no sooner you will get fund and get a job again in Cambodia.
Wish you good luck!!
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at least theary seng has 3 posters on top are dumbest.
Theary,
you can write thousands of words, but it does not mean anything. if you go to africa, south america those countries probably worst than Cambodia. don't just talk. do it to help cambodia a better place.
cpp....
Your father was killed by Chea Sim, Heng Samrin or Hun Sen, if you were in Kg Cham.
If you were in Battambang, he was killed by another Vietminh, Ros Gnim.
Think twice, before you serve them,
I don't belive that your father would be happy if he was there.
Theary,
I am turned on rock hard looking at your picture.
Can we get together for some serious love making?
Khmer stud in USA
Theary, What an awesome article. I agree with so many of the things you have said. I pray for the Cambodian people often and am in the process of starting a business with many of the proceeds going towards orphans an sex-slaved children!
May God richly bless you and put you in a position of leadership to make a difference in the hearts of the Khmer people and the needed change in the Government!
Sherry Plangger
Kalamazoo, Michigan USA
I have never thought that a Khmer female could write at all. I guess I was wrong. I love reading Ms. Theary's opinion of the subject of poverty. Remember that this is not a research paper. However, her opinion is very inspiring.
Yes, I agree with the private companies (they are all about PROFITS and their PLUSH EXISTENCE!) but certain international NGOs having similar role of taking care of millions of aid dollars also have the same mentality to preserve and protect their luxurious living and nothing to do with humanitarian work. I see all these young consultants running around with thousands of dollars of salary and they know nothing except to write good English. They go out every night drinking and conversing among themselves and exchange information among themselves about how stupid the Cambodians are and how easy they have it. While the Cambodians with capacity are putting their resumes together, the young foreign consultants over drinks and dinners and their weekend stays at the beach are passing on inside information to their friends on how easy to get good money, meet powerful and famous people and run the NGOs.
She can express ideas better than Khmer men not just whether Khmer female can write.
4:39 AM,
Keep your dipstick to yourself or we'll feed it to the Viet's black dog, capish?
"Keep your dipstick to yourself"
8:03PM
I can't. It is full and I need to unleash it now. If Theary is not available, I can unload it on your hole?
Khmer Stud in USA
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"Anonymous said...
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8:44 AM"
That's right! Shut yourself from commenting first, 8:44AM. If not, I will send Khmer stud to unload his dipstick in your hole.
PROUD ANONYMOUS
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